Grumpy Cat
Well-Known Member
I am really regretting asking him to help me with the sink now… I want to just fix it myself and tell him, never mind!
I'm just going to say this cause it happened to me and my Aspie friend. Take a deep breath and relax. We NT's tend to jump to conclusions when the situation is totally different. You're thinking he probably doesn't want to do it or whatever when really he could be trying to find his sink unplugger (my word) thingie or trying to get your things together and thinking "oh boy! I'll get to see her again! I really did miss her." Until he actually says "I don't want to see or talk to you" then I would take it for what it is. My Aspie friend said if I was doing something that he didn't like he would just tell me. Just see what happens, but try to get him to fix the sink for you (men always like to feel needed) then thank him by cooking something for him. What's that other saying? "A way to a man's heart is through his stomach."