Kari Suttle
Well-Known Member
I'm sorry to voice a new opinion so late in the discussion, and that it won't be what you want to hear but...
Ten weeks is a long time. I read that it takes about three months to form and cement a new habit. And add to that is the whole "out of sight, out of mind" scenario which I've found to be common among aspies I've known. I don't contact my family for weeks on end, because they're just not there to remind me to call them.
I suggest texting him on thanksgiving is a great idea, just be prepared for him to be surprised to hear from you as he very well may have moved on emotionally.
I can vouch for the 'out of sight out of mind' thing. It describes how I deal with all relationships, really. I agree...although thanksgiving gives you a good reason to contact him idk if waiting even longer is a good idea. It can be very easy for aspies to move on emotionally.