Hi all
I have a little problem that i would like your opinion on
My aspie boyfriend broke up with me a week ago following an intense night where i had an anxiety attack. I might have said things I didn’t mean, but I don’t think I said anything too bad. During an anxiety attack i often forget the whole picture as it’s my anxious feelings that steer me, not logic. I apologized for the things i remembered saying. I don’t have anxiety attacks much but this time I had been off my meds for a week and one thing lead to another and my feelings just burst out. All i know is that the anxiety attack was fueled by memories of my abusive ex, and me feeling that i needed some comforting.
The day after he ghosted me.
I tried to apologize and explain myself. Tried to reconcile and to say sorry, but he didn’t answer me. Two days later he said he couldn’t cope anymore and broke up (via text). Nothing more than that.
He removed me from all social media.
I have been giving him space ever since, I told him that i love him and care and that he can contact me if he wants. But I have not pursued him since then.
Should i reach out to him? Or just let him go? Is there a chance that he ever writes me again?
Should I continue no contact and just let him come on his own terms? What are your thoughts around this?
I really feel that we have a special bond and so much in common, and I feel so stupid if it was my anxiety attack that made him run. Because it would have been so easily stopped if I just had my meds, but at that time I had to wait for them because of summer schedule at my health care facility.
Please give me some clarity of what to do.
I have a little problem that i would like your opinion on
My aspie boyfriend broke up with me a week ago following an intense night where i had an anxiety attack. I might have said things I didn’t mean, but I don’t think I said anything too bad. During an anxiety attack i often forget the whole picture as it’s my anxious feelings that steer me, not logic. I apologized for the things i remembered saying. I don’t have anxiety attacks much but this time I had been off my meds for a week and one thing lead to another and my feelings just burst out. All i know is that the anxiety attack was fueled by memories of my abusive ex, and me feeling that i needed some comforting.
The day after he ghosted me.
I tried to apologize and explain myself. Tried to reconcile and to say sorry, but he didn’t answer me. Two days later he said he couldn’t cope anymore and broke up (via text). Nothing more than that.
He removed me from all social media.
I have been giving him space ever since, I told him that i love him and care and that he can contact me if he wants. But I have not pursued him since then.
Should i reach out to him? Or just let him go? Is there a chance that he ever writes me again?
Should I continue no contact and just let him come on his own terms? What are your thoughts around this?
I really feel that we have a special bond and so much in common, and I feel so stupid if it was my anxiety attack that made him run. Because it would have been so easily stopped if I just had my meds, but at that time I had to wait for them because of summer schedule at my health care facility.
Please give me some clarity of what to do.