if someone decides to complain about how you contacted them online, which breached an order previously granted in court, which HMA can provide an indictment for you, then you often have to go to the area they live in. But I don't know why that is.
This makes sense, particularly if the "events" occurred online. The Courts are probably local, and you're being called to deal with issues that "belonged" to the local district.
The thing is, this woman had gone on a mental health forum I was posting on years ago, and she used an alias to say things to me in a PM. But unfortunately, the thread she replied in is not publicly viewable any more, and she probably requested for her account to be deleted. So I simply cannot provide any proof that she did that.
I know a little about the UK and Scottish laws regarding what you can "say" online. Not in detail, but it's an exception example of a supposedly democratic country (the UK) with a history of freedom of speech throwing it away for terrible reasons.
The trouble is though, the courts are required to enforce the laws, even repugnant laws.
BTW: Online forums don't necessarily "forget" anything. Things are logged, backups are taken, etc, so the information you need may be available.
If you've been tricked into saying something that might be illegal, you should ask the site operator for help.
Even if they're not in the UK, they may have a policy of releasing that kind of information in cases like yours.
Although as you can imagine, many people online have successfully riled me up.
This may be possible, but FWIW you've been consistently polite to me.
There are a lot of strange things said online though, and no shortage of unreasonable and/or rude people who
enjoy causing trouble. Sadly, lightly moderated, unmoderated, and/or biased forums
attract members of the "Dark Triad" who enjoy chaos, and deliberately try to make people angry, and induce them to over-react.
FWIW, in the past I've participated in forums that run at a much higher temperature than this one. Thanks to mild "aspie-alexithymia" I don't get angry in the face of intemperate words online.
On the other hand I've often gained a significant tactical advantage over people who post when they're angry /lol.
The point of this:
Don't post when you're angry.
Especially in a state like the UK, where certain completely reasonable opinions are illegal, or can lead to your opinion being registered.
OFC that doesn't mean don't reply to people who are out of line or trying to trick you into a misstep.
Just wait until the adrenaline is out of your system, and craft a response that's effective
and safe.