No disagree..
You still have not shared why your wonderful attributes of a Women Who Loves You have changed since your marriage break up..?
We have all been Shat on at some point..sone more than others and from a greater height.
.but we must always.. always be open to another person willing to come Into our lives, who have the only Intention to enhance it, ...add dimensions that you never thought possible.. take you on a journey to total Paradise and Utopia that you can simply bask in our admiration of you, of which you will never wish to escape.
An NTt's love for you is all consuming.. emotional driven from the unconscious mind that will always overide the logic and always more powerful, so from the very core of their heart and soul, never waiving,, fiercely protective and with you in your corner..Always..walk.over Hot Coals if needed..wirh you ..always..If we do Commit..its powerful..Pleaee don't Ever Ever forget that..Our Love reaches depths that are unfathomable to your one sided brain function...but to.us...totally instinctual..Ax
Oh, I am still married Flygirl. Have been for 11 years happily. Her and I are so different, but most of those differences make us compatible. For those things we disagree on, we often compromise, or we take turns sometimes whereby I get things I want or need, but equally she does as well. Overall, we do not change the other, but accept the fabric of each other's being. However, if either needs help or assistance, we are glad to help the other, and often without having to be asked as we know what each desires and needs. We both show care to each other in different ways, and not necessarily in the ways that society expects.
And so I agree that there are women out there that would be protective and see the great things in one with such conditions, as in my case. And you seem really nice. I realize my wife has issues too though, so that is why she is more understanding. But, for those NTs that have no issues, and especially women, I think most prefer or need the "strong" or "successful" type. But, to me the definition of strength and success is debatable. To many women though, the definition means a great job, and a guy with not many issues. If he is tall and handsome, that is a plus for them, too.
My argument would be: a guy being themselve and going against the grain in this society and surviving in this cruel world, that shows often strength. And my belief is success should not be defined by women, men or media, but by themselves. If a man or woman is happy or fine with being quieter, or contributing in less standard ways, that is to be appreciated. That is unique and special. Often the guys seen outwardly as the strongest, are really the weakest. They are lacking in important traits, can be dishonest, need sex and to impress or follow others. And so often the ones seen as weak, are really strong, as they live by their own rules.
But, I understand what you are trying to say. I just think there are not many NT women as open minded, patient, positive, and strong enough to deal long term with a man that is unique and special, as these other women need often a certain type of guy to impress their friends and provide them with things that they expect from a traditional man. In my case, I wanted to be my best for myself, as I am a perfectionist and believe in some self-improvement, so perhaps this is why my wife gave me a chance too, but there are a lot of great guys out there that are happy or need to be themselves, so if a woman loves that, then great. If he sees that love, then maybe instinctively some could start expressing more, or learn more, and grow more, if not immediately then a bit later.
So, I am just saying, for those NT women who want lots of change, in an Autistic, ASD or Aspie guy look elsewhere, as that guy likely would be happier without that woman.
