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NT female courting an Aspie Male - Advices appreciated

Redruby

Redruby

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I am a NT woman that is in love with an Aspie man.

We have been having a physical relationship for about 6 months now but I want to be in a relationship with him.

He's been very clear that he doesn't want a relationship with me because he doesn't see it with me.

Once the mind is made, is that the final decision? Is there a way I should be courting him without stressing him out?
 
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It sounds like he is clear about what he wants. I don't think this is unique to a man with Asperger's. It's really hard to be in a situation where you want more but the feeling isn't reciprocated. :-( I'm sorry you are going through this.
 
he should want you back you seem to love that guy for who he is which is sometimes unrealistic in my experience i hope he falls for the same way love is a gorgeous thing
 
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