My sister and I both have a volatile relationship. One day we’re out galavanting around the countryside, other times we’re fighting tooth and nail.
My issue, is with not knowing what to do with our relationship? Should I stop bothering with her?
Part of the problem is her and her moods. What I mean by this is that she gets moody and takes her moodiness out on me. This displays itself through the silent treatment and passive aggressiveness.
Often she will get up and lash out at me. For no reason. She is very hot and cold.
Long after an argument that we have had, she will still be holding a grudge and I will have moved on the next day.
I’m not really sure what to think about this? Because she does often treat me with disrespect, I.e ignoring my text messages deliberately or not giving me an answer when she knows I as a person seek clarity.
We just had a row two days ago and she’s giving me the silent treatment. I asked her to go out today and she ignored me and she hasn’t spoken to me since this argument.
She sometimes buys me gifts etc and not sure if this is out of guilt and don’t know what to think about this?
Tbh, IMO it’s very childish behaviour and I often wonder if there is something deeper behind it.
What should I do? I am sick of this cycle of fighting and being lovey jubby over and over again. As dictated by her!!
My issue, is with not knowing what to do with our relationship? Should I stop bothering with her?
Part of the problem is her and her moods. What I mean by this is that she gets moody and takes her moodiness out on me. This displays itself through the silent treatment and passive aggressiveness.
Often she will get up and lash out at me. For no reason. She is very hot and cold.
Long after an argument that we have had, she will still be holding a grudge and I will have moved on the next day.
I’m not really sure what to think about this? Because she does often treat me with disrespect, I.e ignoring my text messages deliberately or not giving me an answer when she knows I as a person seek clarity.
We just had a row two days ago and she’s giving me the silent treatment. I asked her to go out today and she ignored me and she hasn’t spoken to me since this argument.
She sometimes buys me gifts etc and not sure if this is out of guilt and don’t know what to think about this?
Tbh, IMO it’s very childish behaviour and I often wonder if there is something deeper behind it.
What should I do? I am sick of this cycle of fighting and being lovey jubby over and over again. As dictated by her!!
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