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“Mild” Autism?
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That. Is. .... Incredible!
I love it.
GrownupGirl
Tempermental Artist
It's like I've told people before: My autism is only mild because it affects *you* mildly, not me.
In the 5th grade, I was so obsessed with not missing anything that I learned how to suppress the cough reflex when I was sick, so I could still go to school. I had a serious flu for about two weeks. I ached all over, was dead tired, and fought the reflex to hack up a lung the whole time - I even learned to breath evenly and shallowly when I slept so I wouldn't trigger the cough in my sleep. My parents and teacher never knew because I suppressed all symptoms and deliberately acted normal.
Reading the description of "Mild Autism" reminded me of that time. I'm sure that someone observant would have noticed my lack of energy and focus and thought I was "mildly sick."
Reading the description of "Mild Autism" reminded me of that time. I'm sure that someone observant would have noticed my lack of energy and focus and thought I was "mildly sick."
Thanks for the link 
That has to be one of the best written pieces on autism I have ever read.
That has to be one of the best written pieces on autism I have ever read.
Noelle
Well-Known Member
This is very well written, I agree. But it is a bit confrontational. If we want them to put themselves in our shoes, we need to be prepared to put ourselves in theirs.
People cannot be expected to understand things they have never experienced. Sometimes I worry that neurodiverse people who are well practiced at blending in and articulating themselves when necessary can become self-righteous and superior in their own knowledge and self-awareness. Then again, perhaps that's just me...
Still I think it would be helpful to remember that neurotypicals are going to be more likely to want to engage in these types of conversations when we invite them to interact as equals, not as ill-informed simpletons. I used to be just like the misinformed person on the receiving end of this exchange... before I was diagnosed for myself. If an autistic person had spoken to me with that kind of condescension, I would have found a way to cut the conversation short very quickly.
People cannot be expected to understand things they have never experienced. Sometimes I worry that neurodiverse people who are well practiced at blending in and articulating themselves when necessary can become self-righteous and superior in their own knowledge and self-awareness. Then again, perhaps that's just me...
Still I think it would be helpful to remember that neurotypicals are going to be more likely to want to engage in these types of conversations when we invite them to interact as equals, not as ill-informed simpletons. I used to be just like the misinformed person on the receiving end of this exchange... before I was diagnosed for myself. If an autistic person had spoken to me with that kind of condescension, I would have found a way to cut the conversation short very quickly.
I completely agree with you on that @Noelle however I think the blog makes the point very well even if it wouldn't be the best way to go about it in the real world. I think as a kind of thought experiment, an imaginary response to a situation it's very eloquent, but acting such a way with a real person would more than likely get their backs up rather than elicit the kind of understanding we really need to move forward.
