Men seeking Women vs. Women seeking Men

[lunarious]

Hi, Al-Salamo Alaykom

There was a member here in his late 40, i don't remember his name. This man was ASD i guess, but he had no luck with women. He broke my heart and pitied him, and told him/us: ~"Women should seek out Men for marriage not Men (as our friend) whom must seek Women".

I regretted saying that right away and i and @tree had a (quick) discussion on it.

But i think regardless of anyones Faith you can not seek me yet impose on me your Rules, neither Martial nor Marital. e.g. Norway seeking me out yet put me under Force and persecution. But to be fair and kind ... we can discuss the fact; I allowed Norway to persecute me etc. and to cast their burden on me, like Prophet Jesus (as) did for his people. That's their Way in Norway. Lady Norway mesmerized me .

So now i'm not sure if this thread belong in the [Love Relationship and Dating] or [Religion Subforum] or what?

 

[tree]

It looks like there's more than one topic on your mind.

Which one do you want to discuss?

 

[lunarious]

It looks like there's more than one topic on your mind.

Which one do you want to discuss?

I'm ASD and can't understand what you are saying. Like; overload maybe. But i don't understand.

In English and norway under-standing is very obvious word, in Arabic .. the word for that is vague.

I'd prefer to remain obscure, but if i'm a Donkey i'd like to not beaten Hard.

 

[tree]

If being obscure is your goal, I'd say
you're succeeding.

 

[lunarious]

If being obscure is your goal, I'd say
you're succeeding.

Good Point

But Muslims believe in Life here but also Here-after. This Life is Work and Study. We hope to rest in The Hereafter.

So Work Hard Play Hard is lie. This life is only for Work Hard.

We can access Hereafter by Allah's permission including supernatural ... things. That our only chance to... I'm Royal Guard because i do a good job as such and you acknowledge me as such. Why wouldn't you?

You can try to become a Religious or Secular authority but you need to get over Prophet Mohammed's Body and my Body and many good Muslims and People.

 

[JayLapointe]

What are you even trying to say? Are you saying Men shouldn't try to find a partner on their own? Or that woman should come to us? Either way that is just small minded thinking, a view that has no respect for Women.

Men and Women are equals. It doesn't matter whom seeks out the other first. Relationships between adults are consenting agreements between partners. And the relationships that work, work because of open communication between equal partners.

 

[lunarious]

What are you even trying to say? Are you saying Men shouldn't try to find a partner on their own? Or that woman should come to us? Either way that is just small minded thinking, a view that has no respect for Women.

Men and Women are equals. It doesn't matter whom seeks out the other first. Relationships between adults are consenting agreements between partners. And the relationships that work, work because of open communication between equal partners.

You said in bold: us.

Us is a Royalty being respected or respecting himself (their-self). .. To do you Justice: Allah has Honored the sons and daughters of Adam. You can be thankful.

But we are not us if you have no respect for me. You are not a Woman, and I respect women but not you: When you say you are us and a Woman.

But what is this?

J

Post in thread 'Let's learn French'

Saturday at 10:47 AM

I didn't understand the text in bold. Can you repeat that?

Que translates to "that/than" and not "What".

Qu-est translates to "what is"

• JayLapointe

 

[Markness]

What are you even trying to say? Are you saying Men shouldn't try to find a partner on their own? Or that woman should come to us? Either way that is just small minded thinking, a view that has no respect for Women.

Men and Women are equals. It doesn't matter whom seeks out the other first. Relationships between adults are consenting agreements between partners. And the relationships that work, work because of open communication between equal partners.

Ditto to this. I wish for a world where either sex can seek partners without judgment nor stigmas.

 

[lunarious]

Ditto to this. I wish for a world where either sex can seek partners without judgment nor stigmas.

Me too.

Edit: What does stigma mean? What does ditto mean? I might google it.

 

[Sflight]

Hi there

 

[lunarious]

Hi there

Hi, Truthfully i'm not good with women (or bad men). ... i'm a little nervous, of course i'm approaching 40 very fast.

 

[JayLapointe]

You said in bold: us.

Us is a Royalty being respected or respecting himself (their-self). .. To do you Justice: Allah has Honored the sons and daughters of Adam. You can be thankful.

But we are not us if you have no respect for me. You are not a Woman, and I respect women but not you: When you say you are us and a Woman.

But what is this?

J

Post in thread 'Let's learn French'

Saturday at 10:47 AM

I didn't understand the text in bold. Can you repeat that?

Que translates to "that/than" and not "What".

Qu-est translates to "what is"

• JayLapointe

Respect is earned. and when you post statements that allude to a demeaning stance towards half the species, yeah you lose any respect you'd accumulated.

And the "Que" French bit has nothing to do with this thread and if you didn't understand my explanation, you'll never learn French. You tried to omit 2 out of 3 words by saying "you can just use Que instead" and I explained no you can not. All 3 of the words have a meaning and need to be used or you sound like someone that doesn't speak the language.

 

[Sflight]

Hi, Truthfully i'm not good with women (or bad men). ... i'm a little nervous, of course i'm approaching 40 very fast.

I was 40 last year , 42 this year , time goes soo quick

 

[Tired]

do a good job

What job are you doing?

 

[lunarious]

What job are you doing?

Enduring non-sense from dis-believers Christian or also some Muslims, physically and mentally and emotionally. (edit) I have mental contract with Allah, or even verbal contract that i'll create "Defensive Weapon" for him. I'm waiting for transaction/payment. ... I've appearently not accomplished my job yet.

BTW i discussed with you that dis-believers are also kind. Regarding that; maybe. But certainly some Muslims or Christians (or Jews or Hindus or Buddhists etc) are also maybe or rather dirty. We hope people are kind, though, that may not be True. People hate Truth. So we must respect Law and Order.

 

[Tired]

Enduring non-sense from dis-believers Christian or also some Muslims, physically and mentally and emotionally. (edit) I have mental contract with Allah, or even verbal contract that i'll create "Defensive Weapon" for him. I'm waiting for transaction/payment. ... I've appearently not accomplished my job yet.

BTW i discussed with you that dis-believers are also kind. Regarding that; maybe. But certainly some Muslims or Christians (or Jews or Hindus or Buddhists etc) are also maybe or rather dirty. We hope people are kind, though, that may not be True. People hate Truth. So we must respect Law and Order.

Disbelievers endure nonsense from believers on a daily basis too, so we are doing good job as well.

 

[Markness]

Disbelievers endure nonsense from believers on a daily basis as well, so we are doing good job as well on a daily basis.

The funny thing is that some of those people accuse me of being “brainwashed” (Ha!) by the public school system and being a fan of Richard Dawkins! I was actually made to go to a religious private school until the second half of 8th grade and even the public school I attended had a religious undercurrent to it. I’ve also never read a page of Richard Dawkins’ books but maybe I should?

 

[Ronald Zeeman]

Dawkins is a pretty strong advocate for atheism, and biologist. Think I read aver by him in high school, However my stroke and out of body experience, strengthened my being agnostic. Their is more to consciousness than meets the eye.