Men seeking Women vs. Women seeking Men

[lunarious]

Hi, Al-Salamo Alaykom

There was a member here in his late 40, i don't remember his name. This man was ASD i guess, but he had no luck with women. He broke my heart and pitied him, and told him/us: ~"Women should seek out Men for marriage not Men (as our friend) whom must seek Women".

I regretted saying that right away and i and @tree had a (quick) discussion on it.

But i think regardless of anyones Faith you can not seek me yet impose on me your Rules, neither Martial nor Marital. e.g. Norway seeking me out yet put me under Force and persecution. But to be fair and kind ... we can discuss the fact; I allowed Norway to persecute me etc. and to cast their burden on me, like Prophet Jesus (as) did for his people. That's their Way in Norway. Lady Norway mesmerized me .

So now i'm not sure if this thread belong in the [Love Relationship and Dating] or [Religion Subforum] or what?

 

[tree]

It looks like there's more than one topic on your mind.

Which one do you want to discuss?

 

[lunarious]

It looks like there's more than one topic on your mind.

Which one do you want to discuss?

I'm ASD and can't understand what you are saying. Like; overload maybe. But i don't understand.

In English and norway under-standing is very obvious word, in Arabic .. the word for that is vague.

I'd prefer to remain obscure, but if i'm a Donkey i'd like to not beaten Hard.

 

[tree]

If being obscure is your goal, I'd say
you're succeeding.

 

[lunarious]

If being obscure is your goal, I'd say
you're succeeding.

Good Point

But Muslims believe in Life here but also Here-after. This Life is Work and Study. We hope to rest in The Hereafter.

So Work Hard Play Hard is lie. This life is only for Work Hard.

We can access Hereafter by Allah's permission including supernatural ... things. That our only chance to... I'm Royal Guard because i do a good job as such and you acknowledge me as such. Why wouldn't you?

You can try to become a Religious or Secular authority but you need to get over Prophet Mohammed's Body and my Body and many good Muslims and People.

 

[JayLapointe]

What are you even trying to say? Are you saying Men shouldn't try to find a partner on their own? Or that woman should come to us? Either way that is just small minded thinking, a view that has no respect for Women.

Men and Women are equals. It doesn't matter whom seeks out the other first. Relationships between adults are consenting agreements between partners. And the relationships that work, work because of open communication between equal partners.