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AprilR
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AprilR

Active Member, Female, 29

I prefer being naive and idealistic to being a debbie downer Aug 2, 2020 at 9:20 AM

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Aug 3, 2020 at 9:08 AM
    1. AprilR
      AprilR
      I prefer being naive and idealistic to being a debbie downer
      1. unperson and Karamazov like this.
    2. AprilR
      AprilR
      Nothing's gonna change my world
    3. AprilR
      AprilR
      I can't sympathize with illogical people
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      3. Karamazov
        Karamazov
        Undoubtably.
        My mother-in-law interprets everything she’s aware of in the world as messages from god to her and her church... Not very logical (and pretty obscene when it comes to wars and famines and so forth), but she’s happy in her own little world.
        Existence as a story book that confirms one’s sense of self-worth I guess.
        Jul 28, 2020 at 10:50 AM
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      4. AprilR
        AprilR
        I don't think being a religious person automatically makes someone illogical, but Yeah there seems to be a lot of religious people like that.
        Jul 28, 2020 at 11:05 AM
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      5. Karamazov
        Karamazov
        No, religion in and of itself is not necessarily illogical, nor is religious belief required to be illogical... just the illustration that occurred to me in the moment. ;)
        Jul 28, 2020 at 12:15 PM
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    4. AprilR
      AprilR
      I am soooo confused i feel like i am not capable enough for this job!
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      2. AprilR
        AprilR
        They didn't talk about a trial period, and i am not sure if there will be someone who helps me. Although my cousin's friend does work there, and my cousin told me that he is a nice person.. But i still don't want to bother people.
        Oh and there is a cat in the office! This is one of the reasons i am seriously considering the position haha.
        Jul 21, 2020
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      3. BenderRodriguez
        BenderRodriguez
        LOL I hear you!

        Maybe it would be possible to ask them if they can assign someone to assist you in the beginning? Phrase it as not so much as needing help, but them being able to make full use of your abilities faster if someone gets you up to speed with things ;)
        Jul 21, 2020
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      4. AprilR
        AprilR
        Good advice! My cousin did say her friend can help me at first, and she would support me too. (she is also a lawyer)
        And the person who interviewed me also seemed very nice.
        Jul 21, 2020
    5. AprilR
      AprilR
      I live for myself!
    6. AprilR
      AprilR
      They didn't call so maybe that's for the best..
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      2. Karamazov
        Karamazov
        Have you had the call?
        How did it go?

        (It’s 7am Tuesday where I am... so in my head it should definitely have occurred ;p )
        Jul 21, 2020
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      3. AprilR
        AprilR
        The interview is scheduled for today there is literally less than one hour! I'll let you know how it goes.
        Jul 21, 2020
      4. Karamazov
        Karamazov
        Ah! Okey dokey: good luck :)
        Jul 21, 2020
    7. AprilR
      AprilR
      Why are some people unnecessarily mean?
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      3. Karamazov
        Karamazov
        Yes: I was never directly bullied.
        What happened was I was told I didn’t need to attend meetings which everyone else was going to, and given “advice” on my projects that was actually sabotage.

        So, yes... always attend meetings, and never do anything on the advice of someone who may see you as competition for the next promotion that comes up.
        Jul 17, 2020
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      4. AprilR
        AprilR
        Well, the law offices here are not really like companies. The offices i worked before had only 3 or 4 people and there were all lawyers. Some offices have a secretary and that's it.
        There are large companies that have their law department but they are very few, even if there is i don't think there are any people concerned with bullying.. .
        Jul 17, 2020
      5. Karamazov
        Karamazov
        That’s about the same size as the construction design company I worked at: 4 technical designers, one financial secretary, one general secretary, one site manager, one engineering consultant and the manager/owner.

        It was only one of my fellow three junior designers who set to undermining me with those tactics.
        Jul 17, 2020
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    8. AprilR
      AprilR
      About to have a (kind of) job interview?? Maybe??
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      3. AprilR
        AprilR
        Thanks! We'll see what happens!
        Jul 15, 2020
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      4. Aspychata
        Aspychata
        Good luck. There are a lot of success stories here!!
        Jul 15, 2020
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      5. AprilR
        AprilR
        Thank you so much!
        Jul 16, 2020
    9. AprilR
      AprilR
      A life unlived.
    10. AprilR
      AprilR
      I love whom i love
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    11. AprilR
      AprilR
      Trying not to have emotions. Emotions suck!
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      3. tree
        tree
        Maybe pushed around by something that is hard to control. Like you are being manipulated?
        Jun 19, 2020
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      4. Aspychata
        Aspychata
        I am so in agreement. Sometimes l hate feelings. Too much muck. To much thinking.
        Jun 20, 2020
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      5. AprilR
        AprilR
        Yeah i sometimes logically understand i don't deserve to feel this way but can't help it.
        Jun 20, 2020
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    12. AprilR
      AprilR
      Still sleepy even though i woke up at 1 pm
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    13. AprilR
      AprilR
      Have just had an epiphany that rubbing that corner of the table might be a stim.
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    14. AprilR
      AprilR
      Decided to wait until september to look for a job. I am scared to go out.
    15. AprilR
      AprilR
      I ended up ranking first on the duolingo leaderboard at last lmao.
      1. tree
        tree
        wow. I am usually about #20.
        May 25, 2020
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      2. Vindicator Phoenix
        Vindicator Phoenix
        Nice. Congratulations!
        May 28, 2020
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    16. AprilR
      AprilR
      I hate fatalism soo much.
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    17. AprilR
      AprilR
      I noticed that i miss learning japanese so i downloaded duolingo again!
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      2. 8398
        8398
        Nice I actually have a tab of duolingo Japanese right now :D
        May 12, 2020
        AprilR and Aspychata like this.
      3. tree
        tree
        I have been doing Latin for awhile. The content is sort of strange.
        Not like previous Latin course I have used.
        May 13, 2020
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      4. cnn
        cnn
        I always have a thing for Japanese, but stay away because of Alphabet, but since you mentioned; maybe I can just speak, but not write.
        May 16, 2020
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    Gender:
    Female
    Birthday:
    Jan 2, 1991 (Age: 29)
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