Ereth
Well-Known Member
I understand how you feel, and if I hurt you, I'm sorry. That was never my intention. I was only trying to be helpful.
But I think you might be taking the Facebook comments a little personally. Do you mention you have hearing trouble and ASD in every post? I can't see how anyone would know or care about the fact that you have these conditions unless you do. And anybody you encounter in person who mistreats you is preying on what he or she perceives as a weakness. You have to see your differences as a strength, not a hindrance.
We've all had our own struggles with communication and bullying and what have you, but you've got to remember that the people who hurt us intentionally are far outnumbered by those who are merely ignorant of our experiences. But that's something that can be addressed. I do not, however, think the cause is aided by turning it into an "us versus them" scenario. It's a tempting thing to do, especially if a person's found it difficult to cope with the realities of ASD, but it's not at all worthwhile.
I genuinely believe most people will try to understand each other if given the chance. It's often frightening and confusing to look at things from someone else's perspective, but it's better to at least try than to shut down completely and say it's impossible.
You have friends here. Please don't give up on yourself. (And if you have suicidal ideations, then please don't hesitate to get help.)
But I think you might be taking the Facebook comments a little personally. Do you mention you have hearing trouble and ASD in every post? I can't see how anyone would know or care about the fact that you have these conditions unless you do. And anybody you encounter in person who mistreats you is preying on what he or she perceives as a weakness. You have to see your differences as a strength, not a hindrance.
We've all had our own struggles with communication and bullying and what have you, but you've got to remember that the people who hurt us intentionally are far outnumbered by those who are merely ignorant of our experiences. But that's something that can be addressed. I do not, however, think the cause is aided by turning it into an "us versus them" scenario. It's a tempting thing to do, especially if a person's found it difficult to cope with the realities of ASD, but it's not at all worthwhile.
I genuinely believe most people will try to understand each other if given the chance. It's often frightening and confusing to look at things from someone else's perspective, but it's better to at least try than to shut down completely and say it's impossible.
You have friends here. Please don't give up on yourself. (And if you have suicidal ideations, then please don't hesitate to get help.)