Alexis C
Active Member
I met this guy in a uni group on fb and he has a crush on me. We are in the same class but never spoke to each other. He is really upfront and honest about his feelings and find any chance he can to flirt with me, which scares me a little cuz I have never met someone this interested in me, or care for me. I suggested we should meet each other first, because I thought that should clear things up a little. I don't remember the details but he never answered my questions when I asked.
The flirtation started to get annoying and all I know how to respond is "good to know", "yea", and "I know".
I don't know if I'm attracted to him, his look makes no appeal to me, yet whenever we aren't texting, I would constantly checking my phone to see if he replies or texts me. I am touched by his confession because no one ever said those things to me before. When I'm in class, I would try to find where he is seating...
He asked me plenty of times if I like him. At first I told him my feelings towards him isn't clear and I needed more time to figure that out. He was so eager to know my answer that he kept asking. He also said if my feelings is still unclear, I should say no. Based on the "missing him" part, I thought like him so I said yes.
idk why I just can't flirt back. people said this is sth automatic and natural but I never understand the concept of it. Anyway, he continue flirting with me with really cheesy lines, I felt indifferent because I just don't like respond the same kind of stuff to him, it almost feel a little disgusting.
He noticed Im cold and indifferent about his flirtings so he asked multiple times again if I really like him. Every time he asks, I struggled whether I should say yes or no, because the answer seems like it is somewhere in between. But I said yes anyway. I told him I have problems with flirting and never really know what to do. But knowing I had relationships in the past and had no trouble flirting with my ex, he got really mad and said I lied to him every time he asked. I didn't wanna admit it but I did anyway because I am strongly convinced that I did. I apologized as many times as I could. I asked if we can be friends and he said no because he likes very much and that I hurt him. He made it very clear that he can't be friends with me.
until now, I still don't know if I like him or not. I don't know if this is just me being lonely and creates an illusion of affection. Or this is a slowly developing feeling that I haven't experienced before. he doesn't wanna be friends so we aren't even talking anymore.
have anyone experience the same before? Or anyone can tell me what I'm feeling right now? I want to know what this is so I can tell him how I feel, for real this time.
The flirtation started to get annoying and all I know how to respond is "good to know", "yea", and "I know".
I don't know if I'm attracted to him, his look makes no appeal to me, yet whenever we aren't texting, I would constantly checking my phone to see if he replies or texts me. I am touched by his confession because no one ever said those things to me before. When I'm in class, I would try to find where he is seating...
He asked me plenty of times if I like him. At first I told him my feelings towards him isn't clear and I needed more time to figure that out. He was so eager to know my answer that he kept asking. He also said if my feelings is still unclear, I should say no. Based on the "missing him" part, I thought like him so I said yes.
idk why I just can't flirt back. people said this is sth automatic and natural but I never understand the concept of it. Anyway, he continue flirting with me with really cheesy lines, I felt indifferent because I just don't like respond the same kind of stuff to him, it almost feel a little disgusting.
He noticed Im cold and indifferent about his flirtings so he asked multiple times again if I really like him. Every time he asks, I struggled whether I should say yes or no, because the answer seems like it is somewhere in between. But I said yes anyway. I told him I have problems with flirting and never really know what to do. But knowing I had relationships in the past and had no trouble flirting with my ex, he got really mad and said I lied to him every time he asked. I didn't wanna admit it but I did anyway because I am strongly convinced that I did. I apologized as many times as I could. I asked if we can be friends and he said no because he likes very much and that I hurt him. He made it very clear that he can't be friends with me.
until now, I still don't know if I like him or not. I don't know if this is just me being lonely and creates an illusion of affection. Or this is a slowly developing feeling that I haven't experienced before. he doesn't wanna be friends so we aren't even talking anymore.
have anyone experience the same before? Or anyone can tell me what I'm feeling right now? I want to know what this is so I can tell him how I feel, for real this time.