My son is Aspy. He seems really normal but he is on the spectrum. He gets weekly ABA therapy. He is 15 years old. His main therapist will give him a task (put all your materials away after he does his homework) and if it is not done correctly will ask him to do complete the task without telling him what is wrong. This frustrates my son. He will walk away from the task. This upsets the therapist who will give him a consequence. Well it escalated to him going to watch TV and her forcing the remote out of his hand. He want downstairs to the toy room and played with his Pokémon cards. She and a male therapist followed him down. While he was sitting on the floor the male therapist went through a second door behind him to pick him up. He grabbed him under the arms and squeezed to force him up. My son said it both hurt and tickled. He then was upset and decided to go to his room. Do you see the behavior where he is looking to calm himself and wants a social out? His mother is sitting on the steps and as he carefully tries to get past her. Both therapist grab him. They either pull him down or he goes limp and he falls on the male therapist. At which point he walks in another room to back kick a hole in a wall. He the. Goes to his room and has a meltdown. He asks them to leave his house. They stay and at one point the female therapist enters his room. He uses a walking stick to guide her out of his room after asking her to leave.
Let me say. I know that he was not abused. I just think that the behavior of their therapist are not age approruate for a 15 year old. I also understand that he should have not lost control. He should have used his words to say he needed to calm
Down and he should have not used the walking stick.
I am divorced from his mother. She thinks the therapist are right in how they handle him and that he is a liar and manipulating. I want a no touch policy and that I can observe therapy. My ex and the therapist say no.
Any thoughts? Am I taking this too far.
Let me say. I know that he was not abused. I just think that the behavior of their therapist are not age approruate for a 15 year old. I also understand that he should have not lost control. He should have used his words to say he needed to calm
Down and he should have not used the walking stick.
I am divorced from his mother. She thinks the therapist are right in how they handle him and that he is a liar and manipulating. I want a no touch policy and that I can observe therapy. My ex and the therapist say no.
Any thoughts? Am I taking this too far.