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Walking contradiction
I've gone through similar this year. After I realized I was on the spectrum, I spent the next three months in a cycle of doubt. I'd start to convince myself that I was overreacting, that I was trying to paper over my issues with a label. Then I'd read something else, remember more things, connect more dots, and it'd hit me all over again. This kept up for about three months, until I decided to search YouTube and see what they meant by "hand-flapping" and "stimming". That first video result was like getting punched in the gut. That little boy moved exactly like I did when I was his age. Exactly. It still hurts to watch, to remember, but it killed my doubt. It forced me to accept myself as being autistic.
The worst thing about accepting ASD was giving up the idea that if I just tried harder and had more discipline, I could function at a normal level. The best thing was finally having an understanding of exactly what my issues are and why I have them. Now I can focus my efforts and get better results.
I appreciate this thread so much. I appreciate this forum and site. I was reluctant to join at first because I didn't want to be seen as an imposter. I mention being self-diagnosed a lot, I even tossed it under my picture on here, because I'm self-conscious about it and didn't want to "misrepresent" myself. But people here are accepting and friendly. Good on you @Pinkie B for having the courage to venture out sooner than I did.
The worst thing about accepting ASD was giving up the idea that if I just tried harder and had more discipline, I could function at a normal level. The best thing was finally having an understanding of exactly what my issues are and why I have them. Now I can focus my efforts and get better results.
I appreciate this thread so much. I appreciate this forum and site. I was reluctant to join at first because I didn't want to be seen as an imposter. I mention being self-diagnosed a lot, I even tossed it under my picture on here, because I'm self-conscious about it and didn't want to "misrepresent" myself. But people here are accepting and friendly. Good on you @Pinkie B for having the courage to venture out sooner than I did.