My 12 yo grandson spends 99.9% of his time in his room on his computer. He struggles at school as he has trouble mixing with other children and when frustrated can become aggressive. If his mother tries to limit the computer time the household is disrupted and it has come to the point where he is left where he wants to be ( ie alone on his computer) for peace. The other day when I was visiting he had a meltdown and I heard him yell at his mother that the kids at school call him "retarded". I don't know how much he knows about Aspergers although I do know that he understands that he has had testing and that he does have it. My question is "Would he benefit from an online community like this". I think he must feel very isolated and different. At the moment he just wants to play his computer games. Any suggestions would be very much appreaciated.