Dreadful Dante
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What would be a good selection of words, expressions and body language to properly explain to someone that I need help?Apparently, my voice tone is too monotome and my speech is to formal with no emotional peaks to it and these characteristics make me seem absolutely calm and definitely not in need of help.
When I'm being honest, I sound like that. When I act, I can purposefully create these emotional "responses" but it would be a lie to myself if I did that in a psyche professional's office.
I've been to professionals who didn't help me because I looked "very normal".
Ok, I know I'm normal, but I still need help. I had to wear a mask for so long that when I need to be honest, I panic afraid it's going to result in someone being profoundly offended by some attitude of mine (it happened again a few hours ago).
When I'm texting, it's worse. I can't read people's non-verbal responses to adapt my sentences according to them.
I really want to be honest with someone and not be called stupid or selfish. I REALLY REALLY REALY want it.
How can I tell them I need help using inteligible sentences that will certainly make sense to them?
When I'm being honest, I sound like that. When I act, I can purposefully create these emotional "responses" but it would be a lie to myself if I did that in a psyche professional's office.
I've been to professionals who didn't help me because I looked "very normal".
Ok, I know I'm normal, but I still need help. I had to wear a mask for so long that when I need to be honest, I panic afraid it's going to result in someone being profoundly offended by some attitude of mine (it happened again a few hours ago).
When I'm texting, it's worse. I can't read people's non-verbal responses to adapt my sentences according to them.
I really want to be honest with someone and not be called stupid or selfish. I REALLY REALLY REALY want it.
How can I tell them I need help using inteligible sentences that will certainly make sense to them?