grommet
Well-Known Member
My girlfriend and I broke up on the 1st of January. We were together and very close, for more than four years. Being aspie feels so strange. It seems everyday I see things differently than everyone else. I have to have order. Things must be a certain way and when they are not I get mad, I get confused, I get scared.
She was aspie and understood all that. Before her I didn't know my place in this world and before her I didn't know why I had a heart or why I was born. Then we met and felt such happiness. We also fought, I wasn't very nice sometimes and neither was she. We broke up more than once but somehow we came back to see each other again. This last time, well, I believe it is different. I think she is making a mistake but I cannot make her or anyone do anything. We both broke up. I apologized very quickly, told her I was angry when I spoke but she got all hard and said things she never said before. They were mean. That is why I believe she meant it, that she didn't want to see me again.
I don't know what my place is. I am still alive, with arms and legs and I sleep and eat and can feel things but .. it's like in a story or like I am living by myself on an island. I don't know what to look forward to. I don't know how I am going to make it. I feel like I won't make it. Sometimes, I feel like I don't want to.
Things with me are fragile now. I have one responsibility left. When that is over I wonder what I will do. I am aspie and I cannot be irresponsible. But once I am free to make my own choice about my life, I wonder what I will do and tonight I am wondering how long I can wait to stop feeling this sad. I want to disappear.
She was aspie and understood all that. Before her I didn't know my place in this world and before her I didn't know why I had a heart or why I was born. Then we met and felt such happiness. We also fought, I wasn't very nice sometimes and neither was she. We broke up more than once but somehow we came back to see each other again. This last time, well, I believe it is different. I think she is making a mistake but I cannot make her or anyone do anything. We both broke up. I apologized very quickly, told her I was angry when I spoke but she got all hard and said things she never said before. They were mean. That is why I believe she meant it, that she didn't want to see me again.
I don't know what my place is. I am still alive, with arms and legs and I sleep and eat and can feel things but .. it's like in a story or like I am living by myself on an island. I don't know what to look forward to. I don't know how I am going to make it. I feel like I won't make it. Sometimes, I feel like I don't want to.
Things with me are fragile now. I have one responsibility left. When that is over I wonder what I will do. I am aspie and I cannot be irresponsible. But once I am free to make my own choice about my life, I wonder what I will do and tonight I am wondering how long I can wait to stop feeling this sad. I want to disappear.