I am gay and I hate it when people ask me this question.

[Jonn]

She claimed my lack of interest in penetrating a vagina was proof I had misogyny. A damn stupid argument.

Yep.
No offence, but your sister doesn't sound all that bright.

BTW:
I have always been penetration-averse, yet I am a cis heterosexual man.
My having always been an antinatalist had everything to do with that.
A Philosophical/ethical/moral condom, as it were.

 

[Metalhead]

Thanks for the support from most of the people here. And also, thanks to the mods.

My sister asked me a loaded question when I was already feeling like crap, and I may have overreacted.

 

[Metalhead]

I really should stay offline when I am feeling physically ill.

 

[Jonn]

My sister asked me a loaded question when I was already feeling like crap, and I may have overreacted.

Overreacting is your autistic superpower.

 

[Metalhead]

Overreacting is your autistic superpower.

Very bloody true.

 

[vergil96]

Does she know you're gay? Sorry if that's a stupid question if you came out to her, but it sounds like she doesn't know

 

[AuroraBorealis]

I would probably just have been really confused about that question. It doesn't make any logical sense.

It would be like asking me, an asexual person, "who would you sleep with, though?"

Uhm... no one? Someone being exceptionally physically attractive in the conventional sense still wouldn't change my sexuality? Should I explain once again to you what the definition of asexuality is? Thanks for the question though?

Some people have a hard time understanding. If you feel better next time with your sister, you could of course try to figure out what it actually is she wants to ask you. Otherwise, I'd just ignore that. You don't have to accept open intolerance, though.

If you need to feel accepted, we're here for you.

 

[Ken]

Homophobia is pervasive in our culture:

Yep. From my perspective, homophobia, racism, speciesism, and all forms of bigotry, seem to be one of humanities greatest evils.

 

[Aspychata]

Your family has issues, are you sure they didn't swap you at the hospital? Last nite, l was able to show how l raised my ND daughter, letting her pursue her interests as my mom listened. So different from my mom's lack of care or concern.

 

[Judge]

My sister asked me a loaded question when I was already feeling like crap, and I may have overreacted.

Had it been from a total stranger, I could see this. However it was your own sister. I don't think you overreacted under the circumstances. From my perspective it did seem like a loaded question.

Reminding me of my own brother, and how he habitually treats and expects everyone to react as the NT who he is. Without any thought or compassion of persons who are different from him.

What does it take for those persons in our closest social circles not to necessarily understand or relate to us, but rather just to accept we are "different" in some ways ?