I am a 19 year old aspie boy who has few friends outside family and I am a huge introvert who plays wow classic and browses the web frequently so I have been thinking of online dating and finding a friend and so I registered on the swedish dating service called happy pancake.
I recently found a really cute girl on there who is 21-22 years old , I have sent her a long and detailed message to her describing myself along with my interests and what she needs to know about me.
I have never tried dating online or in real life so I am not too knowledgeable on the subject.
The only issue is that she lives quite far away from my home region but as long as I can keep contact with her during my last year of high school I should be fine and then once I have finished high school I might meet her in real life.
She is probably a neurotypical too so I am not too sure what I should be thinking of when dating to make things turn out good.
I have a few thoughts as well when it comes to having a relationship and dating in general and one of them is that I find the very idea of mating outside of having children strange especially when they do it often and I also find all genitalia disgusting to look at.
I would never do it unprotected if I was not thinking of having kids and doing it unprotected any other time when not planning to have kids is a common cause of teenage pregnancies.
I also can't stand people that do it orally because that is just disgusting and creepy in my opinion .
The worst and probably most opressive form of this is when a group of men decides to make out with a girl or perhaps forcing her to it and it can commonly be found on most porn websites which is just revolting because it only confirms that the harmful ways men see women is very much alive.
There are other ways to love each other that do not involve people making out with each other such as tickling each other or kisses.
I am not an expert at this sort of thing but I do know that communicating and being open is one of the most important things to have in a relationship.
There are also many examples I have read on men that are absolute pigs towards their wives whether it's through verbal abuse or even violence.
That is something that I find is just wrong and one of the reasons why this happens could be that some men have a very distorted and messed up way that they look on women because they have been exposed to harmful macho norms that tell us men to act like douchebags towards women
I have also read and heard about the many horror stories of women being raped against their will by piggish men who can't see why raping somebody is wrong because they have been told it's ok to rape women like they are just a sexual object according to the above mentioned macho norms in society.
The sad part is that many relationships are not very succesfull to begin with whether it's because of things like substance abuse and physical abuse or things like not communicating with each other.
In my eyes a marriage should only be done if you can assure that the relationship will stay healthy for many years which it won't in most marriages.
What do you think of dating neurotypicals but that you are an aspie?
I recently found a really cute girl on there who is 21-22 years old , I have sent her a long and detailed message to her describing myself along with my interests and what she needs to know about me.
I have never tried dating online or in real life so I am not too knowledgeable on the subject.
The only issue is that she lives quite far away from my home region but as long as I can keep contact with her during my last year of high school I should be fine and then once I have finished high school I might meet her in real life.
She is probably a neurotypical too so I am not too sure what I should be thinking of when dating to make things turn out good.
I have a few thoughts as well when it comes to having a relationship and dating in general and one of them is that I find the very idea of mating outside of having children strange especially when they do it often and I also find all genitalia disgusting to look at.
I would never do it unprotected if I was not thinking of having kids and doing it unprotected any other time when not planning to have kids is a common cause of teenage pregnancies.
I also can't stand people that do it orally because that is just disgusting and creepy in my opinion .
The worst and probably most opressive form of this is when a group of men decides to make out with a girl or perhaps forcing her to it and it can commonly be found on most porn websites which is just revolting because it only confirms that the harmful ways men see women is very much alive.
There are other ways to love each other that do not involve people making out with each other such as tickling each other or kisses.
I am not an expert at this sort of thing but I do know that communicating and being open is one of the most important things to have in a relationship.
There are also many examples I have read on men that are absolute pigs towards their wives whether it's through verbal abuse or even violence.
That is something that I find is just wrong and one of the reasons why this happens could be that some men have a very distorted and messed up way that they look on women because they have been exposed to harmful macho norms that tell us men to act like douchebags towards women
I have also read and heard about the many horror stories of women being raped against their will by piggish men who can't see why raping somebody is wrong because they have been told it's ok to rape women like they are just a sexual object according to the above mentioned macho norms in society.
The sad part is that many relationships are not very succesfull to begin with whether it's because of things like substance abuse and physical abuse or things like not communicating with each other.
In my eyes a marriage should only be done if you can assure that the relationship will stay healthy for many years which it won't in most marriages.
What do you think of dating neurotypicals but that you are an aspie?