I will now reveal the reason for this post, although it embarrasses me to admit it, because I truly hate the thought of being arrogant, but the person who has been snubbing me is a chap and well, it appears he is attracted to me ( he gives such confusing signals to me) but having lived with an nt for most of my life, I have learned to read certain body mannerisms and this guy actually blushes when I have said hello.
I have tried to keep out of his way as much as possible, but pretty difficult when he seems fit to attach himself to my husband and loudly calls him a friend, but even my husband agrees he is a funny friend!
I thought I had seen the last of him, but with shock, he texts my husband and invites him over for a meal and my husband says it means us. I tried to grab on to the part that he did not include me, but sadly, he invited another couple too and I had no choice but go along for a meal and yes, he spent a good deal of the evening snubbing me. On arriving, he kissed the other lady ( much older than him) and formally put his hand out to me to shake, which although I did not mind, I did feel embarrassed.
I had to sit next to him ( a round table) and oh goodness me, did my mask get a good deal of usage that evening! He did lean over and whisper: does he never relax? Meaning my husband, who was still wearing a jacket ( suit), but I could not answer for I felt he had no right to say that to me! I did want to shout: it is not MY fault if you are attracted to me, for I have done nothing to make him feel that way. Yes, I smile and am very friendly. My husband did reveal to me that he had told this guy that I only flirt when it is initated by the opposite sex, which is true enough and it is reckoned that is why he is distant with me!
The thing is that I have had no choice but be in this guy's company and it is the most awful feeling when one feels that they are invisable and yet, my husband said that often throughout the evening this guy was looking at me!
Mostly when I am snubbed by the opposite sex, I keep well away, simply because I hate the idea of inflicting them with my personality, but when I have no choice but be in their company, that is when I fade into a tiny mental ball of distress!