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How do I become more callous at work and not feel guilt?

maleonolo

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How do I stop feeling guilt?

I often see people whose morals change to fit the group's beliefs. It's necessary to survive in the workplace. Hazing, exclusion, workplace politics, these are all essential to climb the ladder. If you asked them about their morals, they'd talk about how good they are. I know they're trying to fit in but it makes me if people feel as much empathy as they say they do, because most people don't seem to experience much guilt

Am I being naïve for believing what people preach when they act differently? Should I grow up and learn to be two-faced and immoral? I'm tired of believing all the lies people spout, trying to measure up to ideals no one actually cares about; it's like chasing a unicorn. I'm not a good person by far, but even so, I wish I could be more callous

Please help me, I need to learn to survive in the workplace. I can't go on like this anymore. I want to stop being so weak and I'm tired of the 'just be yourself' lies. I need to learn to haze and gossip and not feel guilty. 99% of the working world revolves around people and networking, I can't keep being so pathetic, so naïve. I know there's no such thing as a human connection because it's just a game of social hierarchy and dominance
 

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