rainydays
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I have never been friendly with an ex after breaking up, because it was too taxing for me. Though, I've only dated two people in my life.
I don't think it's likely that we will be friends in the future, because I said some things during a recent melt-down after being dumped.
I told him to **** off and have a nice life. Previously he had expressed a desire to remain friends, but I couldn't. Some things he said hurt me and I snapped. Before that I tried to casually talk to him and just be around platonically, and to be honest, it just hurt and I cried a lot. I think it made me very unstable, which doesn't excuse my behaviour but it didn't help.
I don't know what to do. This person has been a big part of my daily life for almost three years, and not talking to him feels awful too. I have never been this attached to someone who wasn't my brother or parent. I also don't know how to talk to him after the last thing I said. I don't think I have the right to, and he (rightfully) hasn't spoken to me since.
I was hoping that over time, it would hurt less, but I don't feel better at all.
I honestly think it would be better if I just disappeared. I don't think saying sorry can make up for the last thing I said, or fix things.
I don't think it's likely that we will be friends in the future, because I said some things during a recent melt-down after being dumped.
I told him to **** off and have a nice life. Previously he had expressed a desire to remain friends, but I couldn't. Some things he said hurt me and I snapped. Before that I tried to casually talk to him and just be around platonically, and to be honest, it just hurt and I cried a lot. I think it made me very unstable, which doesn't excuse my behaviour but it didn't help.
I don't know what to do. This person has been a big part of my daily life for almost three years, and not talking to him feels awful too. I have never been this attached to someone who wasn't my brother or parent. I also don't know how to talk to him after the last thing I said. I don't think I have the right to, and he (rightfully) hasn't spoken to me since.
I was hoping that over time, it would hurt less, but I don't feel better at all.
I honestly think it would be better if I just disappeared. I don't think saying sorry can make up for the last thing I said, or fix things.
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