BenSolo
New Member
everything is new. I feel a little too lost right now. I’m in my 30s and I just got handed an unofficial dx. All of my idiosyncrasies and things my doctor pushed off on my adhd seem to be me being on the spectrum. Cleverly hidden by the fact that I’ve been able to “adult” okay, I.e. have a job, a family, a degree. But all of the odd little things and anxiety and social stuff... well, I suppose it finally makes sense. I just wanted to connect somehow. Even though IRL I like being a loner save my very small inner circle of family. But I don’t know why this dx is so hard to swallow? I’m not any different than I used to be! I’ve always been this way. A label hasn’t changed me. Anyone else struggle? All insight is appreciated. Thanks in advance for letting me be a part of your community.