They sent me for psychiatric help when I was a teen. I never understood what people meant by what they said. I accepted things as literally true and did not realize when they were meaning something different. I was always asked why I was making faces, but I didn't know that I was, so I was stuck for an answer. I remember turning red with embarrassment when my answers generated laughter.
Now I'm much older. I've learned by studying people's faces, voice tones, and body language when there is some secret NT meaning coming forth and I can figure it out most (not all) of the time. My wife of the last few decades realized about 10 years ago that she could interpret me for NT's and vice versa. She will cover for me and tell people what "I really mean." That's been very helpful. I still don't know how to tell if someone is actually a friend so I commit to things I shouldn't. My wife helps me with this also.
In summary, I don't think the AS has changed over the years, but I've gotten less concerned with the things that bothered me when I was young and I have an expert interpreter who spends a lot of time with me. She calms me down when I get upset and explains things to me very patiently.
I'm not so sure that I was dropped on earth by my real parents who might come back for me someday any more. I can see myself as a contributing member of society. I'm more comfortable in my own Aspie skin.
Now I'm much older. I've learned by studying people's faces, voice tones, and body language when there is some secret NT meaning coming forth and I can figure it out most (not all) of the time. My wife of the last few decades realized about 10 years ago that she could interpret me for NT's and vice versa. She will cover for me and tell people what "I really mean." That's been very helpful. I still don't know how to tell if someone is actually a friend so I commit to things I shouldn't. My wife helps me with this also.
In summary, I don't think the AS has changed over the years, but I've gotten less concerned with the things that bothered me when I was young and I have an expert interpreter who spends a lot of time with me. She calms me down when I get upset and explains things to me very patiently.
I'm not so sure that I was dropped on earth by my real parents who might come back for me someday any more. I can see myself as a contributing member of society. I'm more comfortable in my own Aspie skin.