Hard questions?

[pricelessppp]

How do I answer it when someone ask if I am dating or if I work questions? I just don't want people to know I'm a "virgin" as they get disrespect. And don't want to till people why I don't work due to me disclosing that I'm on the spectrum in risk social & romantic rejection. Should say I'm not working but am looking for work in the future. And also should I say I'm not dating right now but am looking for someone to hook up with or date. Which would lead me to possible Job opportunities & or romantic opportunities?

 

[Autistamatic]

I think your best answer to both questions is "I'm available" or "I'm still looking" tbh.
Non-specific but shows interest and intent to change the current situation re both

 

[Judge]

Keep it simple and ambiguous. A somewhat passive way to imply to someone who may not matter to mind their own business. And if they do matter you can always choose to tell them more.

That you're "in between jobs" and "unattached". Voila.

 

[Pats]

Or you can ask why do they ask.

 

[Suzanne]

And to follow on from Pat's response which I love: am I that interesting that you should want to know?