Feeling Undefined

[All-Rounder]

I have for a long time longed to know what it is that defines me. When asking people, things aren't very explicit, and they don't talk to me about me, I usually have to pull the info out of them. But I always remain just as confused.

What am I like? I have so many different things that I like, what is my style? I feel like I have no staple things I wear. Seeing from the interior of myself is very hard, what do I sound like? What are my quirks and likable features?

I used to endlessly talk about these things about others but I felt like I couldn't get the same about myself.

 

[Suzanne]

When I have been asked: what am I like? What tastes etc, I have not been able to answer, because of how undefined I felt, but am getting better now, so must mean I do feel a bit more defined.

 

[Mary Terry]

I have for a long time longed to know what it is that defines me. When asking people, things aren't very explicit, and they don't talk to me about me, I usually have to pull the info out of them. But I always remain just as confused.

What am I like? I have so many different things that I like, what is my style? I feel like I have no staple things I wear. Seeing from the interior of myself is very hard, what do I sound like? What are my quirks and likable features?

I used to endlessly talk about these things about others but I felt like I couldn't get the same about myself.

As you grow older, you will come to better understand yourself. I was pretty clueless about my true self at your age, too. And still occasionally surprise myself about who I am now that I'm in my 60s.

 

[Wolfsage]

I always held a picture of a better me in my mind. Someone who was kind, brave, strong, loved freely, was wise, and always ready to protect others.

 

[All-Rounder]

As you grow older, you will come to better understand yourself. I was pretty clueless about my true self at your age, too. And still occasionally surprise myself about who I am now that I'm in my 60s.

The more I learn about myself the more confused I get. It's like a havoc of things that are like puzzle pieces. It's always so strange to not have like a mirror. When I try to process myself I can't look at the facts like I would analyze somebody else. when i read what I write it's hard to imagine myself.. Maybe I should make a list and just put it together in a full image

 

[Aspychata]

Don't we change and remorph constantly? Some days, l am a better version of me then 5 or 3 or 1 year ago. Other days l feel like a factory reject, but these days rarely happen.

 

[Fino]

If you're able to endlessly talk about it with others then just do the same yourself, seeing yourself as as a different person, as if you had met yourself. The only difference is you have even more information than you do when you do it for others.