Sitting on my bed crying because as hard as I try, I am not able to see positive out of renovating our home. My husband, although as done a good job so far, feels shy or lacks confidence with doing big things around the house, even though he has achieved many excellent things, there are still many things to do and he is an NT.
So when you are two, things are supposed to be easier, accept here I am caving in because I cannot cope with change.
I tried to explain how I feel ie overwhelmed, but all he said was: you try being the one who has to do the work and I feel just as overwhelmed! What can I say to that?
Escaped upstairs, as I feel shame crying in front of him, making things tons more difficult.
He is refusing help and as stupid as it is, I look at the work and wonder what the heck I can do!
I am so frightened, because I cannot squash this feeling of hating change.
Believe me, I am doing all I can to not scream and hide, for I am perfectly aware that adds to his stress, which is why I escaped upstairs.
What is it about this forum? I have stopped crying and feel less scared and yet not even posted yet!
As it happens, Friday we are having dinner with a couple and get this: they are in their 70's and yet he has the energy of a young person! He has said that we will discuss what needs doing and see what they can do, so if I can keep from freaking out......
Times like this, do wish I could take that pill and become an nt,, because when you live with someone who believes you are an aspie, bit demands or thinks it is unfair how I am being, that confuses me.
So when you are two, things are supposed to be easier, accept here I am caving in because I cannot cope with change.
I tried to explain how I feel ie overwhelmed, but all he said was: you try being the one who has to do the work and I feel just as overwhelmed! What can I say to that?
Escaped upstairs, as I feel shame crying in front of him, making things tons more difficult.
He is refusing help and as stupid as it is, I look at the work and wonder what the heck I can do!
I am so frightened, because I cannot squash this feeling of hating change.
Believe me, I am doing all I can to not scream and hide, for I am perfectly aware that adds to his stress, which is why I escaped upstairs.
What is it about this forum? I have stopped crying and feel less scared and yet not even posted yet!
As it happens, Friday we are having dinner with a couple and get this: they are in their 70's and yet he has the energy of a young person! He has said that we will discuss what needs doing and see what they can do, so if I can keep from freaking out......
Times like this, do wish I could take that pill and become an nt,, because when you live with someone who believes you are an aspie, bit demands or thinks it is unfair how I am being, that confuses me.