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Do you watch or download Porn online?

Do you watch or download Porn?

  • Yes

    Votes: 29 44.6%

  • Bi

    Votes: 1 1.5%

  • What's Porn?

    Votes: 3 4.6%

  • Other

    Votes: 6 9.2%

  • No

    Votes: 26 40.0%
  • Total voters
    65
Mr Allen

Mr Allen

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No, I don't apart from Googling "naughty" pics of soap babes, Marge Simpson, and the wives from the Flintstones.

IMO Porn is for sad people who don't "get any" from their partners.

So how about you lot?
 
“Bi”? What’s that option supposed to mean?

Also, a healthy sexual relationship with your partner doesn’t have to be mutually exclusive with porn.
 
So you've defined something in a way that allows you to use the parts you want without those parts falling under the definition, and such that the definition is negative yet the part you like is okay. You've then started a thread about the 'bad' part only, why, so that you can bash anyone who answers to it? It might seem weird to characterise an OP as being trollish since it's your own thread, but you do seem to be trolling here.
 
Quart said:
Bisexual. Both man and woman.
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Yeah I know what bi and/or bisexual is, I just dont see why it’s an answer in a yes/no/maybe type question. Syntactically it doesn’t make sense to me. Which is why I’m asking Rich for clarification as to what he means with the option.

@Mr Allen care to explain?
 
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I suspect it might all make a great deal of sense to Dr. Freud. Just not in a way the OP may appreciate.

In essence, projection as a defense mechanism.
 
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Alas, I have no idea what "pornography" is, so I cannot say if I see it or not--- let alone watch it. Before one can answer the question, one must define what "porn" is: good luck on that: after 500 years of trying to regulate "porn," humanity is still not anywhere closer to knowing what "porn" is.

As for romance and sex, I avoid all hint of such in books, movies, web sites., etc.
 
No. Porn seems to be more geared to what turns men on than women, but I'm not against it per se.

I like artsy erotica pics more. Shadow and light. More subtlety and nuance, less sweaty body parts. And voices. Just spoken words. I would like porn, y'all just don't do it right.

Apropos of nothing, I have a friend who rages against lesbian porn made for men using straight women.
 
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Not since I was in a teenage gang.

Didn’t have the internet back then. It was more,
a gang of us going around to whoevers parents were out and watching whichever V.H.S tape had been found and loaned for the evening.

There were nine of us altogether. The lads putting cushions on their laps and blushing and lots of ewwws and ‘oh my god’s from the girls, laughing behind their hands.
All pretty innocent. More curiosity than anything.
 
Mr Allen said:
IMO Porn is for sad people who don't "get any" from their partners.
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A strange assumption, that everyone must be sad about such a thing.

I've never had a relationship myself. But then, I also actively avoid them. People are nasty. Just nasty. Why in the numerous hells would I want to get physically CLOSE to one? I find that rather gross. I dont even like dealing with people in normal conversations, so... yeah, the idea of doing "things" with someone is... rather alarming. And the idea of a full-fledged relationship is utterly beyond my understanding. I dont see the point/appeal.

Frankly, I dont see the problem with that. And I doubt I'm the only one that thinks that way.
 
Increasingly I've moved away from visual porn and to textual erotic stuff. I really have seen enough porn thanks very much.
 
countzero1984 said:
I'm definitely a pathetic person who watches porn and can't get any from his partner (i.e., my wife.) And proud of it! If life hands you a lemon, make lemonade! That's always been my motto.
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You're proud that wifey won't give you the beast with two backs? I bet you could. Knowing what to do would sort you.
 
I was raised by a peodophile and introduced to porn at a very young age and so, yes, have had a struggle with it in the past, but in fact, found it beyond pathetic and that helped me to not want to look again.

Always a sense of "I am doing a naughty thing here" and the emotions that went with it.

I can see why men are addicted, because that was how I was raised: how to please a man and thus, know what usually goes on in the brain.
 
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