I do this, too. One person said I needed to wear something on my feet that they could hear approach. Started with engineer boots. Since I had no choice but to keep the job, I did. Happily, the buckle made a sound most seem to perceive before I'm up to them. Feel like the cat with a bell on its collar. But then the choice of boots at work got frowns (people - sigh). Just kept wearing them and now only like boots.
I know what you mean about the word weird. It's everything that violates expectations, social strictures, rules, etiquette, etc., but nothing is positively defined. I've been called it more times than I can remember. Also get called "loser" since I refuse the socially acceptable career paths, accomplishments, honors, etc., that guys are supposed to go after. Have taken the word on and now smile when I say it, since a life being a winner is nothing I could do, much less want, either. Creepy existence, winning, or always trying to.
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I know what you mean about the word weird. It's everything that violates expectations, social strictures, rules, etiquette, etc., but nothing is positively defined. I've been called it more times than I can remember. Also get called "loser" since I refuse the socially acceptable career paths, accomplishments, honors, etc., that guys are supposed to go after. Have taken the word on and now smile when I say it, since a life being a winner is nothing I could do, much less want, either. Creepy existence, winning, or always trying to.
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I always scare people when I come up behind them to join in a conversation but without immediately giving them an extroverted greeting to announce my presence. They always jump when they suddenly see me standing nearby, and I always forget that at that distance and being that quiet I will frighten them.
Forgive me if I've already shared this, but this is my overall view on being "weird" and an "alien":
The adjective "weird" is such a negative descriptor: it doesn't describe what something is, just what they are not. If someone calls something "weird" all they are saying is that it doesn't lie their often tiny sphere of familiarity, but there is an almost infinite number of places where it could lie.
The way I see it, someone just describing me as "weird" and nothing else would be like the first space explorers describing the other planets they've seen as "not like Earth" and leaving it at that. It's a word used by people too lazy describe what something is, and so they simply describe what it isn't.
Point being that if you're an "alien" that could mean countless things. There are so many different types of "aliens" and so many different types of "weird."