I have a regular grocery delivery and the delivery person varies depending on who is doing what shifts. There is a delivery guy that, based on the symptoms I experience, that I think I am attracted too. I kind of feel a combination of
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Twice now he has casual thrown the question 'Are you doing anything tonight', into the conversation. The first time I said I was washing my hair, which was true as I do have set nights when I wash my hair, and it happen to be a hair washing night and I have a vague recollection that a gal telling a guy that 'she is washing her hair' was code for 'I'm not interested' but I'm not sure if that is commonly known amongst 'youner'(in their 20s) people. The most recent occassion that he asked me what I was doing, he also managed to fit into the conversation that the plans that he had had been cancelled.
Is him asking if I'm doing anything and letting me know that he isn't busy, just general chit-chat that's a bit friendly/flirty? Y'know in the way some people are just very chatty and will talk to all sundry about anything and everything. Or, is this his way of trying to test the waters about/working up to asking me out? (Advice would be appreciated)
I don't want to persue a romantic relationship with anyone at the moment. I'm still processing the emotional back-log from a serious relationship that ended recently. But I'm sure it is obvious to him that I am attracted to him, as I am hopeless at hiding that kind of thing.
I don't like the idea that on the one hand I am giving out a signal that I am attracted to him but on the other hand I wouldn't go out with him if he asked me. I feel like I am being dishonest but I don't know how to hide or switch off the being attracted to him. Is there a way to not come accross as being attracted to him? Should I behave a particular way? Most of the social skills I have learnt come through observing, firsthand, human interaction, but this isn't an area that I have observed in real life.
Is feeling like I am being dishonest, an over-reaction? Is giving out a signal of being attracted to someone whilst having no intention of things going anywhere something that would be accepted as common place?
Is it normal to be attracted to someone even though I know that being in a relationship is not what is best for me? Shouldn't deciding that I don't want to be in a relationship at the mo switch off the part of me that becomes attracted to a guy?
I'm aprehensive about the possibility of him asking me out as I'm not sure how to say no in a way that is clear but not unkind. What could I say, were this to happen?
Your thoughts, opinions, advice and experiences would be greatly appreciated
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Twice now he has casual thrown the question 'Are you doing anything tonight', into the conversation. The first time I said I was washing my hair, which was true as I do have set nights when I wash my hair, and it happen to be a hair washing night and I have a vague recollection that a gal telling a guy that 'she is washing her hair' was code for 'I'm not interested' but I'm not sure if that is commonly known amongst 'youner'(in their 20s) people. The most recent occassion that he asked me what I was doing, he also managed to fit into the conversation that the plans that he had had been cancelled.
Is him asking if I'm doing anything and letting me know that he isn't busy, just general chit-chat that's a bit friendly/flirty? Y'know in the way some people are just very chatty and will talk to all sundry about anything and everything. Or, is this his way of trying to test the waters about/working up to asking me out? (Advice would be appreciated)
I don't want to persue a romantic relationship with anyone at the moment. I'm still processing the emotional back-log from a serious relationship that ended recently. But I'm sure it is obvious to him that I am attracted to him, as I am hopeless at hiding that kind of thing.
I don't like the idea that on the one hand I am giving out a signal that I am attracted to him but on the other hand I wouldn't go out with him if he asked me. I feel like I am being dishonest but I don't know how to hide or switch off the being attracted to him. Is there a way to not come accross as being attracted to him? Should I behave a particular way? Most of the social skills I have learnt come through observing, firsthand, human interaction, but this isn't an area that I have observed in real life.
Is feeling like I am being dishonest, an over-reaction? Is giving out a signal of being attracted to someone whilst having no intention of things going anywhere something that would be accepted as common place?
Is it normal to be attracted to someone even though I know that being in a relationship is not what is best for me? Shouldn't deciding that I don't want to be in a relationship at the mo switch off the part of me that becomes attracted to a guy?
I'm aprehensive about the possibility of him asking me out as I'm not sure how to say no in a way that is clear but not unkind. What could I say, were this to happen?
Your thoughts, opinions, advice and experiences would be greatly appreciated