Hi! I have been together with my boyfriend for 1.5 year, except for 2 months last summer when he said he didn't want to hurt me anymore and broke up. Before he broke up he told me he still had feelings for me though. 2 months after he obviously felt better and contacted me. He also had some silent weeks after a surgery. Now I am starting to sense that he is up to something similar. This time I am a little more prepared, BUT I am still anxious.
We have a long distance relationship and in a way I think THAT is what has helped him. He has never had a relationship before. I am his real first girlfriend. I think I am probably more mature than his former girlfriend.
I have taught autistic children over the years and I almost immediately detected things that might put him on the AS spectrum. I am learning more and more things about him and I also read alot. If I didn't do that he would drive me nuts and very anxious. He has not been diagnosed. When I asked him if he had an AS personality he didn't know what it was.
I think he is wonderful and I tell him that often. I try to ask him direct questions to avoid confusion, and that helped the other day. I just want to understand so we can have a good relationship. And I believe most people can be diagnosed with something. Right now he sends me appr. 1-2 chat sentences a day, like Good morning darling.
What should I do? I miss him alot. If I'm lucky I will see him in maybe 3 weeks. I honestly think I am a great match for him, because he has told me girls always get angry with him and break up. I hope he understands what an effort I make. Please give me advice.
We have a long distance relationship and in a way I think THAT is what has helped him. He has never had a relationship before. I am his real first girlfriend. I think I am probably more mature than his former girlfriend.
I have taught autistic children over the years and I almost immediately detected things that might put him on the AS spectrum. I am learning more and more things about him and I also read alot. If I didn't do that he would drive me nuts and very anxious. He has not been diagnosed. When I asked him if he had an AS personality he didn't know what it was.
I think he is wonderful and I tell him that often. I try to ask him direct questions to avoid confusion, and that helped the other day. I just want to understand so we can have a good relationship. And I believe most people can be diagnosed with something. Right now he sends me appr. 1-2 chat sentences a day, like Good morning darling.
What should I do? I miss him alot. If I'm lucky I will see him in maybe 3 weeks. I honestly think I am a great match for him, because he has told me girls always get angry with him and break up. I hope he understands what an effort I make. Please give me advice.