DogwoodTree
Still here...
One of my sisters is coming into town this weekend, along with her hubby (who is just plain mean) and 3 of her kids. My kids always want to spend time with their cousins, and the general expectation is to all get together anyway (the rest of us all live in this area).
So I'm trying to get my head in the right place before the weekend starts. Here are my goals:
I'm not sure I can handle keeping anything else at the forefront of my thoughts, as I usually get pretty stressed around them. They don't know my dx, just that I've withdrawn a lot over the past year (in an effort to free myself from the codependent patterns). But...any other suggestions of any points I should keep handy for when I get stressed? My goal is to keep myself out of trouble, lol!
So I'm trying to get my head in the right place before the weekend starts. Here are my goals:
- Maintain an awareness and ownership of my own freedom at all times. I don't have to conform to their expectations.
- Extend an offering of freedom to everyone around me. They don't have to conform to my expectations, either.
I'm not sure I can handle keeping anything else at the forefront of my thoughts, as I usually get pretty stressed around them. They don't know my dx, just that I've withdrawn a lot over the past year (in an effort to free myself from the codependent patterns). But...any other suggestions of any points I should keep handy for when I get stressed? My goal is to keep myself out of trouble, lol!