CannedLaughter
New Member
Hi All,
I'm new here and hope that the array of aspie adults can give me a little advice please around something rather sensitive. I have been reading posts on here for a little while and his behaviours and preferences are practically the spitting image of a fair few posters.
my boyfriend is an amaizing lover and emotionally he and i are very invested in each other, but recently our sex life has faded somewhat (we used to be intimate several times a week and its now once a month if that). Most things recommended by web searches are generally not suitable (he doesn't like fussy lingerie costumes) so i was wondering what sort of thing would be considered a turn on without being to much of a sensory overload.
I only ever want to make him comfortable and I know his preference is for me to initiate intimacy... but is there anything else can i do?
I'm new here and hope that the array of aspie adults can give me a little advice please around something rather sensitive. I have been reading posts on here for a little while and his behaviours and preferences are practically the spitting image of a fair few posters.
my boyfriend is an amaizing lover and emotionally he and i are very invested in each other, but recently our sex life has faded somewhat (we used to be intimate several times a week and its now once a month if that). Most things recommended by web searches are generally not suitable (he doesn't like fussy lingerie costumes) so i was wondering what sort of thing would be considered a turn on without being to much of a sensory overload.
I only ever want to make him comfortable and I know his preference is for me to initiate intimacy... but is there anything else can i do?