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I'm starting to feel like the odd one out, reading such articles that always say how interviews are the first barrier, and how poorly we interview.
What about the application/résumé? That's a barrier that comes before. How do you justify a résumé with either little experience, or on the contrary lots and lots of experience all over the place, across different industries & functions, sometimes at a much lower level than what you're capable of?
I know in my case, getting past that and getting an interview has always been the hardest. Not saying that the interviews afterward were ever easy, but they were at least an opportunity to explain this non-linear trajectory of mine that defies all expectations --not something a résumé has ever been able to do justice to. Surely I can't be the only one in that situation?
(For full disclosure, I also need to add that I have beautifully messed up a number of interviews on purpose, after realizing this was not a desirable workplace with an attitude I could handle. You can feel those things)
I couldn't agree more...I agree. I like these stories, but truly, they are anomalies. Many of us did not get the proper support while growing up. Many of us had severe abuse to contend with. Many of us did not come from wealthy homes with parents who had the luxury to tote us around from one ABA therapist to another.
That is NOT to say that these stories are comprised of only those lucky types. I know there are autistic people who make it...............but I know a whole lot who don't. Abuse and bullying leave huge stains. Being autistic and growing up in poverty with no opportunity leaves its mark. Trying always to dodge one sensory assault after another leaves one exhausted. Not being able to eat or sleep or etcetcetc etc.........
This guy might be endearing or good looking or have a social quality that might eclipse the social ineptness. I don't know. But many NonNT's are beat before noon! (Ummm, speaking about myself here, don't be offended, anyone)
Now I KNOW there are blind people who climb Mt Everest. I see the billboard going to work. And that is great. But PLEASE stop making that the bar. Now it will be like, "Oh, you are autistic? Well, WTfreak? How come you are not CEO of google by now???"