MikeMarkCA
Active Member
I need some advice on the proper way to discipline a 7 year old autistic ball of fire.
My wife (grandson’s grandmother) in my opinion treats the boy too much like the boy is a baby.
Away from my wife, the kid is well behaved around me. I’m not a hard ass with the boy, but I call him out when he doesn’t listen, or when he doesn’t do what he is told, my wife let’s him skate on both, always citing his autism. She will go as far as telling me the kid is scared of me, which I do not see at all.
The child’s mother (our daughter) has expressed that when the boy comes home after spending a few nights with his grandmother, is unruly and misbehaved.
So my question is this, is there anything wrong interacting with an autistic child as you would a child with no autism? Should you not demand the same behavior, discipline the child the same way you would a child without autism?
I can’t help from thinking babying the child with autism, defeats the puropose of achieving a normal living condition as possible for the kid as he gets older.
I have fears, fears of other kids taking advantage of him, talking him into doing things nobody else will do. He is a very brave kid, I fear he will be talked into becoming the fun for other kids.
Not looking for a clear cut answer, just looking for thoughts..
My wife (grandson’s grandmother) in my opinion treats the boy too much like the boy is a baby.
Away from my wife, the kid is well behaved around me. I’m not a hard ass with the boy, but I call him out when he doesn’t listen, or when he doesn’t do what he is told, my wife let’s him skate on both, always citing his autism. She will go as far as telling me the kid is scared of me, which I do not see at all.
The child’s mother (our daughter) has expressed that when the boy comes home after spending a few nights with his grandmother, is unruly and misbehaved.
So my question is this, is there anything wrong interacting with an autistic child as you would a child with no autism? Should you not demand the same behavior, discipline the child the same way you would a child without autism?
I can’t help from thinking babying the child with autism, defeats the puropose of achieving a normal living condition as possible for the kid as he gets older.
I have fears, fears of other kids taking advantage of him, talking him into doing things nobody else will do. He is a very brave kid, I fear he will be talked into becoming the fun for other kids.
Not looking for a clear cut answer, just looking for thoughts..