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I can lie very well I just don't like to do it and so very rarely do unless I have no other choice.
For example my daughter signed up to do a musical workshop during summer break so she doesn't get so bored with 6 weeks of no school. Then my mum and niece decide they are going to visit, only week they can do is the week of the workshop. We've already paid for the workshop and the principal is an absolute pain in the butt who hates us and will not do us any favours. So to get her out of it and get us our money back I had to come up with an airtight plan/lie, which is to say a few days beforehand that a relative has died and we need to go north to help arrange the funeral/attend it. I will ask for a refund (all of this via email) she will say no and spout some nonsense about how it states you can't just cancel/get your money back etc etc(even though it doesn't... I checked). I will not reply and then post on her facebook page that I haven't gotten a reply to her email but could we please get a refund as a death in the family is a bit of different circumstance to just not wanting to do it and it's a big sum of money. If she refuses publicly she will look like such a nasty person and image is everything to this woman. If she does however still refuse to refund I'm going to ask one of the little one's friends to take her place,we've paid for it so someone may as well have a week long workshop.
Now I wouldn't normally lie like that but as I said this woman is just nasty(she's had me in tears many a time) so I'm able to do it. I can't lie to my loved ones at all, if I try I just start stuttering and fidgeting and it's just so obvious that I am trying to lie.
Actually, staring extra hard is a sign of lying.I can lie about pretty much anything with no problem if I see no reason why I shouldn't. I don't show any of the usual signs of lying, either, like looking away, talking low, or repeating questions. Actually, if I'm lying, I tend to stare into the other person's eyes as "hard" as possible until they look away. In primitive body language, looking away first means they "lost," so because I held the "dominant" side of the conversation they are more likely to believe what I have said and less likely to question it later.
Actually, staring extra hard is a sign of lying.
Different people have different body-language signs of lying.
It probably has a lot to do with whether they A. didn't want to lie, and feel forced into it... or B. lied as the result of a very deliberated choice.It can be, but I have found it to be far less common. Most people I have had experience with will look away as much as possible when lying. Lying tends to make people uncomfortable, and they do not feel secure enough to look you in the eyes unless they are very practiced.
A sign of lying is really when someone's body/facial language deviates from whatever is the norm for that particular person.It can be, but I have found it to be far less common. Most people I have had experience with will look away as much as possible when lying. Lying tends to make people uncomfortable, and they do not feel secure enough to look you in the eyes unless they are very practiced.
That could mean some Aspies could potentially be some of the best liars. For example my facial expression doesn't really change with any emotion.A sign of lying is really when someone's body/facial language deviates from whatever is the norm for that particular person.
That could mean some Aspies could potentially be some of the best liars. For example my facial expression doesn't really change with any emotion.
I can?t recall where, but I read an article once that Aspies cannot lie or will have serious problems if they do lie. If memory serves right, but I think it alluded to something to the effect that the ?Aspie brain short circuits if/when a lie has been told.? Has anyone heard or experienced such a thing?