What are the psychological aspects in school that you are refering to?
Well, I'll go with an extremely blatant example:
Giving speeches. You know, you write some stupid essay, and then have to stand in front of the class and read it, despite nobody wanting to hear it. To the teachers, this is a positive social effect. It's meant to get people used to speaking in front of a group (as this is required by quite a few jobs/careers, even ones where it doesnt really make any sense) and improve relations between students... somehow.
But for those on the spectrum, it tends to do the literal opposite. Makes speaking to people even scarier than it already is, causes incredible amounts of stress, and frequently leads to even more bullying, and of course the possibility of meltdowns. I dont even want to know how many of THOSE have been caused by teachers forcing this crap on students. But, because of "the system", teachers as a rule wont even CONSIDER making an exception to this, for those students whom it will simply harm. After all... that's not what they care about, and that's not the purpose of the system as a whole.
The speeches concept is designed to act on a part of a person's psychology that has to do with social connections... but since those on the spectrum think differently, the process is incompatible, and stuff just goes wrong.
Like trying to run Windows software on a Mac. It's kinda like that.
School as a whole is STUFFED with things like this. These things arent particularly obvious without a bit of examination, but they are there.
LOL I know how much work, study, and money goes into trying to manipulate me through advertisement, and more or less, I'm offended by it. At least, a lot of it (I'd be a bald faced liar if I said I wasn't influenced by some advertisement). I know making that box a certain color is a psychological trick to appeal to me, playing Christmas music in stores is supposed to trigger my brain to buy gifts etc., I know they've spent a ton of money to target me...and it ticks me off.
When it comes to obnoxious popup ads and the like, IF I notice what the product even was (I've gotten good at averting my eyes while I look to close the popup lol) I am more likely to specifically avoid it because they annoy me than I am to buy it.
Yeah, pretty much. I do the same thing, if some idiotic ad irritates me too much, I will not only avoid said product, but I'm dramatically more likely to buy a competing one out of sheer spite.
I also see this ad nonsense a lot with video games. Trailers for craptastic AAA games hypnotize audiences, getting them to very literally PAY FOR A PRODUCT THAT DOESNT EXIST YET, which is one of the stupidest things I've ever heard. Or, the psychological manipulation that goes into getting people addicted to gambling elements. Sad part is, by far the vast majority of people will never even notice any of this happening. Even if it's explained to them, usually it is just denied. To me though, it's so blatantly obvious that I find myself continuously baffled that a bazillion people fall for it every time. And every time, they get burned, go into a state of righteous fury, post angrily on the internet... until the next shiny trailer comes out, at which point they'll immediately and without hesitation pre-order some stupid thing again without even considering the problem. As it is, right this very moment half the freaking gaming community is in a giant uproar over a recent major AAA release, which came out in an absolutely disastrous state.... and which I was already 100% sure would happen. Knew WHAT would happen, HOW it would happen, WHY it would happen, and WHEN. And I was correct on all counts. It's THAT freaking obvious. It was that obvious a bloody year before it came out. I've got no sympathy whatsoever for those who were burned by that one. Blasted fools. But hey, those big shiny trailers told them to buy! So they did!
Just ridiculous. Ridiculous!