When distressed, overloaded, possibly headed for a meltdown I now go to my one of my special interests. Music practice. Scales, arpeggios, crawling exercises. It’s so soothing. I have to force myself. Walk into the music room, plug in and strap on a bass, turn on an amp and play. My distress immediately begins to decrease. Don’t know why my Psych has not suggested it. Seems so obvious to me now.