Kit
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My mom thinks my son is a little bit aspie and my husband thinks he has a mild form of it but me, I wouldn't be surprised if he had it but I have no desire to get him diagnosed when he already has help in school so I don't see how a new diagnoses would change anything. My mom thinks maybe the new diagnoses would give him a classroom aid full time like it did for me.
He already has ADHD and anxiety and he had learning issues but is finally catching up in reading and math and he is finally doing his school work, it took him a while to get motivated. I often feel like I have to use his video game interest against him to get him to do stuff like his school work but my mom says I am just being a good mom and using discipline. He loses video games for a day when he doesn't do his school work.
But my husband thinks this diagnoses would help him in the future like getting on social security if he has it and thinks it's easier to get on it when you have a early diagnoses in your childhood. Would his school records not be enough?
Anyone else here have kids who may be on the spectrum but have no desire to try and get them diagnosed or even tested to see if they are on it or not?
He already has ADHD and anxiety and he had learning issues but is finally catching up in reading and math and he is finally doing his school work, it took him a while to get motivated. I often feel like I have to use his video game interest against him to get him to do stuff like his school work but my mom says I am just being a good mom and using discipline. He loses video games for a day when he doesn't do his school work.
But my husband thinks this diagnoses would help him in the future like getting on social security if he has it and thinks it's easier to get on it when you have a early diagnoses in your childhood. Would his school records not be enough?
Anyone else here have kids who may be on the spectrum but have no desire to try and get them diagnosed or even tested to see if they are on it or not?