My son was recently diagnosed with autism at aged 9.
We're going to tell him but are not sure how best to do it and provide him with useful imformantion that is helpful but isn't too focused on the downsides and potential negative outcomes of being autistic.
While we were waiting for a diagnosis, we have been discussing neurodiversity in general, and autism has come up, so he is aware of it.
He also has autistic people in his school, but they require a lot of support from the school, whereas he doesn’t really. So I don’t think he relates to those children.
If it makes a difference, at his diagnosis, the psychiatrist said he’d have been diagnosed with Aspergers in the past but now it’s ASD.
Anyway, we are going to tell him, but I’m really nervous about it. Whenever I look online, the official pages also talk about it in quite severe and limiting terms. Such as struggling to get a job, anxiety, depression, etc.
I know it’s a disorder so don’t want to make light of it, but I’d rather just draw his attention to the positive or neutral “differences” of being autistic, at least to begin with.
He has a very inquisitive mind, so will want to know all about it, and while I’ve done a lot of reading, I find it hard to articulate what I’ve read. Plus, most of that is about the downsides of it, not the other sides.
I’ve being trying to find a factsheet I can print out that covers autism but without going too much into the downsides but haven’t managed to do so.
Any tips on explaining it to a child so that it’s a positive experience?
We're going to tell him but are not sure how best to do it and provide him with useful imformantion that is helpful but isn't too focused on the downsides and potential negative outcomes of being autistic.
While we were waiting for a diagnosis, we have been discussing neurodiversity in general, and autism has come up, so he is aware of it.
He also has autistic people in his school, but they require a lot of support from the school, whereas he doesn’t really. So I don’t think he relates to those children.
If it makes a difference, at his diagnosis, the psychiatrist said he’d have been diagnosed with Aspergers in the past but now it’s ASD.
Anyway, we are going to tell him, but I’m really nervous about it. Whenever I look online, the official pages also talk about it in quite severe and limiting terms. Such as struggling to get a job, anxiety, depression, etc.
I know it’s a disorder so don’t want to make light of it, but I’d rather just draw his attention to the positive or neutral “differences” of being autistic, at least to begin with.
He has a very inquisitive mind, so will want to know all about it, and while I’ve done a lot of reading, I find it hard to articulate what I’ve read. Plus, most of that is about the downsides of it, not the other sides.
I’ve being trying to find a factsheet I can print out that covers autism but without going too much into the downsides but haven’t managed to do so.
Any tips on explaining it to a child so that it’s a positive experience?