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A new project

The Friend of Joy

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Hi, I am the Friend of Joy, and I am looking for those who share my interest in projects and the development of them. Right now, I want to create a project for those of us who are a little creative. This is not the first time I have done projects, and I have been successful before, and I don’t give up easily. I simply love projects, and like sharing ideas with others, and if possible: Enable them (btw: Feel free to move this to “politics discussion” or “computers, science and technology, if that seems more appropriate).

The project is about people participating to create, if they want, a system of sorts: Politics for example can be done even online, with new ideas. But also about sharing creativity like paintings, arts, and more. Competitions. It is within the confines of this forum and the mailboxes that it for now will take place, so it will contribute, not steal members, as I appreciate this forum. That’s a promise. I know success here is no guarantee, but I also know I in earlier times, in other places, did inspire others with my ideas, and thus, I will try and eventually, succeed, but in a good way. I only listen to those interested, because obviously that’s the people I want to be friends with, and I can say that my intention is pure and good, and I know many who say that doesn’t always mean it, but I do.

I will be the official leader and owner of this project, but if others are interested, then the plan is for there to be other leaders as well, as I want to share any influence within the project with other contributors and there will be terms/periods for official leaders. Owners will be appointed, but by agreement. I am besides looking for a Deputy and a second owner. And there may be other roles for contributors. I have had positions before (for example as a moderator at a different time and place), but to me roles/positons, online or not, is irrelevant. Anything I do, I do for the sake of creating something good and with the long-term plan of always sharing influence. I don’t base my self-confidence on positions, and would advise others not to as well, but I greatly appreciate enthusiasm, and I regard it as positive to seek leadership, so long as it is because you want to contribute and you seek it in a good way. But in that case, respect the others as well, and always share influence. I was once in a place where people were so intent on positions, even if they were self-created, that they stabbed others in the back to get them. That was a long time ago though, but ever since then; I have really hoped to not see that again, because when people don’t cooperate, things just don’t work. Disagreements are welcome. But go about it in a good way, and respect others, is how I prefer it.

It may be you feel you aren’t fit for positions due to lack of experience, but I will say this at once: Everyone begins somewhere, and many years ago, when I first started with projects, I gained experience from trying, not from being perfect. Experience and confidence in what you do is something you often gain because you try, and it is not always successful, but it doesn’t have to be, because everything is an experience, and we learn from that, if we are willing. So if you like to share ideas with others, and want to try and have roles within something, and just share my interest and love for projects, just contact me here, and know that I can give much back, in terms of friendship, for any help I get. To those of you interested: Have a nice day and weekend.

-Friendly regards: Friend of Joy
 
Can you say that in fewer words, but more specific ones, with examples?

I don't have any idea what you are proposing.
 
What is the purpose/goal/aim of the project?; What exactly is the project supposed to create?

A project is not a thing unless it has an answer to at least one of those questions....
 
That kinda comes off like an infomercial. You get the feeling that something lies behind the fluffy words. Maybe something that wants to remain hidden... something dark and evil... :eek:

Just kidding. :D
 
The project is about people participating to create, if they want, a system of sorts: Politics for example can be done even online, with new ideas. But also about sharing creativity like paintings, arts, and more. Competitions.
Sounds interesting. Could you say more about what you mean by this description?
 
An odd thing to solicit if you ask me. Such social dynamics are usually earned- not simply negotiated.

"Lead, follow or get out of the way." - Lee Iacocca
 
I think some of you misunderstand a litte. Its easy to understand that some of you distrust (generally online): You have grown up in a world where trust isn't easy to come by, for many of you, but whether you trust me or not, don't be afraid to do what you like.

But I'm looking for those who understand what I mean, not those who distrust. I just want to share ideas really, just want so share my, hopefully our vision, with the people I can be friends with. And it can really be something really simple, and just so you understand: I'm not looking for people who feel better than others, but people who can share knowledge, who can share influence, and who has that "light" inside them, and is not consumed by fear. With other words, I just want to share simple things like if you paint something, or create art, just share it, or if you have original ideas for the world or something else, I'd like to hear it.

Some of you think I seek to be a leader, but why? I already have been in other places, and I don't care for positions, for in my opinion, no one deserves it. Humans are generally not ready for such things, but I just want to share my ideas really, but with people I can trust. There is no "plot" here, other than just helping people, and at least inspire them, if nothing else. So many people are afraid to just post threads like this, because they fear the reactions, but I don't see the point in that. I want a world without constraints, and to me, it is important that all that "darkness" inside us, disappear. An impossible goal, perhaps, but one worth fighting for, to me.

I don't care one bit if you choose to trust me, or understand me, but remember this: Most of you, is diagnosed with one aspect or another of autism. And ask yourself: Did the world always understand you? And did you give up just because they didn't? Perhaps some of you did, but I'd like you not to. I hope that some of you may chose to be bold instead. And I'm not referring to this project when I say that, I'm talking about in relation to yourself. Do what you will with this thread, but do go for your own ideas, even if they are controversial and difficult to understand.

-Friendly regards: FoJ
 
This most recent post has not clarified anything.

Help and inspire, how?

It's not a matter of choosing to trust you.
You actually don't say what it is you're trying to accomplish.

A webpage possibly?
 
No, not a webpage. Or another page for that matter.

And I'm not looking for moderators or people who are part of established friend groups, but people who feel left alone. Isolated. Who need to have someone to talk to: A new friend circle, more like.

I want to be nice to you tree, so I will be, because you are a human too, even if you second-guess me, and I don't want this tone between us, but I know you feel it is your duty as a mod, so it is okay. But if the roles were to be reversed, how would you feel? I won't continue to discuss, because I shouldn't have to explain myself like this, when I haven't done anything wrong, and if anyone just want to talk really, in a friendly way, send me a message, and if not, then of course comment if you want, but I won't reply, because I don't want this thread to be a disagreement like that. That probably doesn't clarify anything more to you, but fair enough: I will let that go. And to you Tree: I forgive you, because I can see your point of view, and you are a human too. And I don't want anyone to feel confused or like that, so find peace inside you, and forget about this, if you can.

-Friendly regards: FoJ
 
You wrote this, I think in your first post. Is this what you mean then, or is this thread idea different?

...I also dream of creating a forum which several people can participate in, and I am already cooperating with a few, mostly one, to attempt this. I'd like a forum built up around projects, politics (creating a political system for the forum - I know, that sounds strange, but I love strange and fun ideas), and competitions etc.. As well as a forum where people feel they can contribute and come with ideas. The motive of this forum would be comic-books, as I feel cartoons and comics remind me of my childhood. But as you can see, this is a dream, and I'm of course trying to be realistic here...
 
I think some of you misunderstand a litte. Its easy to understand that some of you distrust (generally online): You have grown up in a world where trust isn't easy to come by, for many of you, but whether you trust me or not, don't be afraid to do what you like.

But I'm looking for those who understand what I mean, not those who distrust. I just want to share ideas really, just want so share my, hopefully our vision, with the people I can be friends with. And it can really be something really simple, and just so you understand: I'm not looking for people who feel better than others, but people who can share knowledge, who can share influence, and who has that "light" inside them, and is not consumed by fear. With other words, I just want to share simple things like if you paint something, or create art, just share it, or if you have original ideas for the world or something else, I'd like to hear it.

Some of you think I seek to be a leader, but why? I already have been in other places, and I don't care for positions, for in my opinion, no one deserves it. Humans are generally not ready for such things, but I just want to share my ideas really, but with people I can trust. There is no "plot" here, other than just helping people, and at least inspire them, if nothing else. So many people are afraid to just post threads like this, because they fear the reactions, but I don't see the point in that. I want a world without constraints, and to me, it is important that all that "darkness" inside us, disappear. An impossible goal, perhaps, but one worth fighting for, to me.

I don't care one bit if you choose to trust me, or understand me, but remember this: Most of you, is diagnosed with one aspect or another of autism. And ask yourself: Did the world always understand you? And did you give up just because they didn't? Perhaps some of you did, but I'd like you not to. I hope that some of you may chose to be bold instead. And I'm not referring to this project when I say that, I'm talking about in relation to yourself. Do what you will with this thread, but do go for your own ideas, even if they are controversial and difficult to understand.

-Friendly regards: FoJ


Hmmm, as clear as mud.

Some of us really prefer concise, clear communication. Your posts are anything but.

I don't know what it is you're peddling FoJ and neither does anyone else if this thread is anything to go by.

*wanders off to have a think about what it would be like living with the fairies*
 
No, not a webpage. Or another page for that matter.

And I'm not looking for moderators or people who are part of established friend groups, but people who feel left alone. Isolated. Who need to have someone to talk to: A new friend circle, more like.

I want to be nice to you tree, so I will be, because you are a human too, even if you second-guess me, and I don't want this tone between us, but I know you feel it is your duty as a mod, so it is okay. But if the roles were to be reversed, how would you feel? I won't continue to discuss, because I shouldn't have to explain myself like this, when I haven't done anything wrong, and if anyone just want to talk really, in a friendly way, send me a message, and if not, then of course comment if you want, but I won't reply, because I don't want this thread to be a disagreement like that. That probably doesn't clarify anything more to you, but fair enough: I will let that go. And to you Tree: I forgive you, because I can see your point of view, and you are a human too. And I don't want anyone to feel confused or like that, so find peace inside you, and forget about this, if you can.

-Friendly regards: FoJ


If the roles were reversed, I'd make a point of saying what I meant
in the most easy to understand way possible.
 

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