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relationship problems

  1. Y

    Is it very difficult to acknowledge the validity of an alternative perspective when someone points out you aren't doing it?

    Trying to wrap my mind around where my partner's autism stops and other issues begin. He is chronically invalidating and dismissive, and usually wants to focus on the facts of a specific incident. He says I complain too much but he responds so poorly when I complain, that things upsetting me do...
  2. Astrid-X

    As an adult female on the spectrum

    Hi everyone and thank you for the warm welcome I have received here. It only been made clear to me at that I am on the spectrum recently. I have known for a couple of months now so I am still in shock/processing it all. Also I am experiencing a severe burnout. Basicly my experience for now is...
  3. P

    Boy trouble

    I have a problem with the guy I was seeing. We were once a couple but broke up. Six months ago, we met at the same university and became friends. We had two dates in February. In March, we were together at a friend's party where I got drunk, talked stupid and even had a concussion. Of course, I...
  4. N

    Possible to get back ex-girlfriend with Aspergers years after a messy breakup?

    Hello everyone. My apologies that this is my first post here, but I've been incredibly conflicted, and well heartbroken. My ex-girlfriend has been diagnosed with Asperger Syndrome, while I've been diagnosed with severe depression. Some backstory: We dated for five years. I came over from...
  5. Les

    Advice in "bridging the gap" with an NT

    Hello everyone, after struggling for quite a while with disparities between myself and my girlfriend it finally made me realise (and after profuse encouragement from my girlfriend) to seek advice. Particularly, in the realm of "understanding" to say. We've been together for about 3 years and 4...
  6. H

    Disconnected from boyfriend

    Hi, i'm posting here because i really need to get these emotions out of myself and i need some understanding. (I'm not a native English speaker so sorry if theres not a perfect English) I have been with my boyfriend for a year now, we're long distance and he has been diagnosed as autistic when...
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