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Tony Ramirez

Tony Ramirez

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Single RSD Aspie Misanthrope 47 From Brooklyn, NY
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  • Tony Ramirez
    I just recovered from having another meltdown seeing face masks at the clinic. Everyone was wearing masks and it was too much for me. I am doing the doctor's therapy by phone on Monday.
    Stuttermabolur
    Stuttermabolur
    Do you have mask phobia or does it make you uncomfortable to not be able to see people's faces? I'm asking out of curiosity, not to be mean. I hope the phone call goes well.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Uncomfortable not seeing faces. They look crazy like from a horror movie. They look like they are going to attack and butcher me.
    Tony Ramirez
    I gave this young woman my spray bottle after Yoga class to clean her mat and she said "thank you" twice to me.

    I wanted to talk to her after but I was afraid even though she would have been polite.
    Gerontius
    Gerontius
    That was nice of you to do that--nobody wants to deal with sweaty & disgusting equipment. You can probably meet her again.
    I'm really proud of you for facing your anxiety.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Thanks.
    Tony Ramirez
    Every woman I encounter this week has a husband but I am trying to not let it bother me. I am just going to enjoy life by doing the things I enjoy.
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    tree
    tree
    It's really hard for you to cope with the idea that every female is not one to which you can lay claim.
    It's like you feel rejected by them if they are in a relationship.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    I know my friend Justin says I have to break that habit but it's hard to change after thinking it most of my life. That is why I am trying new things.
    tree
    tree
    That Complaint Journal sounds useful.
    The Yoga Class is a whole new thing for you, too.
    Tony Ramirez
    I find YouTube videos I like by accident most of the time not by using there search. I use image searches and links from forums to find them.
    S
    Slime_Punk
    They recommend me so much stuff themselves that I hardly have to use the search bar, either :)
    Tony Ramirez
    Yoga class workout was harder today but I still did it.
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    tree
    tree
    My bathroom is small, too.
    I use the length of time it takes for the toilet to flush and stop filling to
    stretch to the ceiling, do five deep knee bends, and a different stretch.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    I can do that in my bathroom. I will try it.
    tree
    tree
    It has worked real well for me.
    At first I had to take a break in between the knee bends.
    Do two, rest a couple seconds, then do 3 more.
    But after awhile, didn't have to do any resting.
    Tony Ramirez
    Found a urinary cat food my cat likes.
    Purina ONE High Protein Dry Cat Food, +Plus Urinary Tract Health Formula
    Better than that Iams junk which made both of my cats vomit 20 minutes after eating.
    tree
    tree
    Have you tried putting water on the dry food?
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    He won't eat dry food when it's wet. I feed him in my room where he stays with me most of the time.
    tree
    tree
    The only way one of mine can eat crunchies is if they're soaked in water until
    they are like tiny sponges. He has one tooth. He eats canned food, some times
    as it comes from the can, but most of it I use the stick blender on, with added
    fluid.
    tree
    If you want a treadmill, how does your uncle manage to prevent you having one?
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    tree
    tree
    One thing that doesn't take up space or cost anything much is
    using a juice can (the large size) when you're sitting in a chair.
    You put the can under your foot and roll it back and forth.

    Yeah, I know. It's not major, like a treadmill. But it is something
    that is easy to do, and can keep at it without getting out of breath.
    S
    Slime_Punk
    I found a really small one on Amazon that folds up easily and stores nicely in a closet or corner but I'm actually not sure what the weight limit is
    tree
    tree
    Taping two juice cans end to end, with duct tape, makes a good easy exercise tool.
    It doesn't take much energy or thought, while you're sitting, (in sock or slipper feet)
    to roll it back and back. Strengthens thigh muscles. Good for circulation.
    Tony Ramirez
    My cat vet checkup was good, no blockage. He just does not want to eat the new food.
    Forest Cat
    Forest Cat
    Maybe mixing a little bit of catnip into the food will help?
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Thanks.
    tree
    tree
    Or nutritional yeast.
    Or mixing just a little of his old food, so that he can get used to the new stuff gradually.
    Tony Ramirez
    I could not go to yoga this morning because no one could watch my sister. I am bummed there are no afternoon or evening classes on Friday. The owner is Jewish which could be the reason the sabbath starts Friday evening.
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    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Thats correct. Either me, my uncle or my parents.
    tree
    tree
    The four of you take turns staying with her. No paid help?
    It must take some co-ordinating, making sure at least one
    of you is available.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    It does.
    tree
    Maybe taking a little break from posting here would give you
    opportunity to work more closely with your therapist.
    Tony Ramirez
    I hate it when married people post pictures of their spouse and kids.
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    Gerald Wilgus
    Gerald Wilgus
    Your envy is not attractive. Your bitterness is hanging around you like a stormcloud for everyone to see.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Stop replying to all my posts you are ticking me off.
    Gerald Wilgus
    Gerald Wilgus
    As long as you continue spewing hatred I will tick you off. You need to learn acceptance and resilience. Maybe if you do, you will finally be attractive to somebody. If you meet a kind and accepting woman, she'd be turned off by your bitterness.
    Tony Ramirez
    My life group is practically all couples with a new couple just joining but the life group won't be meeting for weeks due to the leaders being busy but most of the time it is cancelled anyway. Should I be glad as I hate being around all couples anyway?
    Tony Ramirez
    Just was watching a video about the new macos and this ugly guy went on and on about his wife. He is ugly and married and I am single.

    BTW I unsubscribed to his channel and gave the video a thumbs down..
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    tree
    tree
    It isn't the autism that stands out in your posts.
    It's the hatred.
    Gerald Wilgus
    Gerald Wilgus
    @tree: I understand what is going on because I come so close to such bitterness and could have been there. My resentment towards couples, especially with those guys who made me feel "less than" by relating their sexual escapades, had me thinking about lethal violence. That thoroughly sickened me and convinced me to change.
    tree
    tree
    Yes, it's my impression that your remarks are based in experience.
    And that you want to give others the benefits of your experiences.
    How you worked through them.
    Tony Ramirez
    I hate married women.
    tree
    tree
    Holding other people responsible for feelings that you have is not all that useful.
    How does honing your capacity for hatred help you?
    Tony Ramirez
    Another good day at Church. A woman I don't know came up to me for a conversation. She knew my name.

    Unlike the park where I am ignored and invisible.
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    W
    Wizardry
    It would behove you to look at it from other people's perspectives. What is going to motivate them to initiate a conversation with you? Especially if you're saying nothing and they have no idea what you'd even want to talk about.
    W
    Wizardry
    I get that autism can make it difficult to make conversation and establish social connections, but it's unreasonable to expect others to do all the heavy lifting socially. The nature of social interactions is reciprocity, and if one is unwilling to initiate social interactions, one ought not be surprised when others don't initiate social interactions with them.
    Gerald Wilgus
    Gerald Wilgus
    Tony: you are so full of hatred and petty jealousy that Carbon-14 wouldn't even date you.
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