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Hazel_1914

Hazel_1914

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    Callistemon
    Callistemon
    Would you like some emoji stickers to decorate the interior with? Hahaha. :)

    How exciting. You'll be fine - our caravan friend lived 20 years in the bush and enjoyed it, when he finished a few decades of tuna fishing on his little boat and living in suburbia.
    Callistemon
    Callistemon
    It's a space of your own from which you can't be evicted, even if you have to drive it somewhere else. That is stability and peace of mind. Plus you can save up on rent money and do useful things with that instead.

    And you can make it just exactly how you want it!
    Hazel_1914
    Hazel_1914
    Well, I gotta find a parking spot, but no matter what I do it'll be cheaper than renting. Off grid living here I come.
    Hazel_1914
    I am beginning to wonder whether ADHD might be comorbid with high functioning autism for me. Either that or I'm burned out. Cannot tell.
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    Callistemon
    Callistemon
    Brain fog, confusion, restlessness, hyperactivity can all be part of burnout. Depending on how bad it is, SSRIs can be helpful in some situations like this. They wind the stress response back a bit by stopping your brain from chewing up too much serotonin in response to the stress.
    Callistemon
    Callistemon
    Good for some people, as a supplementary thing to lifestyle management, when in particularly stressful periods in a life. I've got times where I go back on them, after initially trialling them as part of PTSD treatment. Was very wary of the idea at first; now I see it a bit like taking extra Vitamin E when I'm about to do something more strenuous physically than normal.
    Callistemon
    Callistemon
    My doctor said she occasionally goes back on them so she can visit her mother-in-law once every couple of years without getting triggered by her poor behaviour. Sigh! I can see what she's saying, but in that case I'd more likely just not visit...
    Hazel_1914
    I keep forgetting how much I hate dealing with college stuff. What a lot to keep up wiht
    Homulilly
    Homulilly
    College can really be a lot. My last semester in college, I only took 4 classes and was still stressed over the tops because of my capstone. Anything you want advice on?
    Hazel_1914
    Hazel_1914
    Thanks for the offer--It's mostly a clash of executive function & workload. I'll be OK next semester.
    4 classes is what I'm doing now. Usually it's 5. That does not work so great.
    Hazel_1914
    Hazel_1914
    Phantom, that's a lot of classes! Slow down a trifle if you can.
    You must be a very productive guy.
    Hazel_1914
    Logistical uncertainty in life lately is pretty stressful, but in a way it almost is like being a little kid playing in a sandbox again.
    Hazel_1914
    I have got to find a place to live. Either that or I'm heading back home to basically live in the woods a bunch. Have got to find something.
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    Hazel_1914
    Hazel_1914
    The old truck is a 1970s model and needs work--but I can get it going, especially since it's not costing money. If I get it, I'll have a place that is MINE. Not anyone else's. No landlord either.
    Callistemon
    Callistemon
    AND it can relocate easily anytime you want to. :)

    No removalist, no looking around again, no contracts, etc.

    Neighbours annoying you? Drive somewhere else.
    Hazel_1914
    Hazel_1914
    It's the "drive" part that's unlikely at the moment but if the owners want to get rid of it, I'd gladly pay him a bit extra to wait until I can get some folks together & we yank it out with a flat-bed.
    Hazel_1914
    Arizona Iced Tea, unofficial bodega beverage of pretty much everywhere, stays at 99 cents a can. The economic miracle.
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    Hazel_1914
    Hazel_1914
    Wait, barbecue?
    The cans of that stuff got me through the summer in New Britain without the air-conditioner.
    L
    Luca
    My home came with an outdoor grill :) I loved iced tea when I barbecue. And yeah, it's a good way to cool off. I usually have iced drinks by the pool too.
    I sent you a text chat, btw
    Streetwise
    Streetwise
    Ive steadily worked my way through 24 330ml cans of Fanta lemon hoping i get Orangina and Fanta orange with my delivery tomorrow ,nice cup of tea tomorrow from Greggs the baker
    Hazel_1914
    I walked into a factory today & they handed me applications for a full time job. This may be an interesting plan change.
    Hazel_1914
    Caller ID has taken the fun out of prank calls.
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    Hazel_1914
    Hazel_1914
    Figured that the opposite of "cop benefit" would be "old lady doing bake sale benefits on Earth Day" so I faked out that "Julia" was enthusiastic about it & would bring all her friends...

    They quit sounding so brave. Eventually they answered the phone asking for Julia--I told them (in my normal voice) to -- well, never mind--and I've not heard from them since.
    Qoyote
    Qoyote
    I know this is off topic but is your refrigerator running? :)
    Crossbreed
    Crossbreed
    On my cell phone, I could choose my caller ID.
    Maybe you could go with "Not Gerontius...?"
    Hazel_1914
    I had been freaking out about paperwork for 36 hours. It took perhaps 30 seconds. This, executive dysfunction? YES.
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    Hazel_1914
    Hazel_1914
    Papier-mache? Nice--I like the way he thinks! -- tell Brett that he has the right idea.
    Usually if papers bother me sufficiently I take them out back, douse them with used crankcase oil out of the car, and set them on fire.
    Callistemon
    Callistemon
    No joke, I have to do this thing called a Business Activity Statement every three months, which involves a lot of paperwork and going through receipts. And when I'm done, I take pleasure in burning all the receipts that I do not need to keep. :)
    Callistemon
    Callistemon
    Also I had to learn about accounting and the Australian tax system three years after we moved to the farm because our accountant, whom we hired because we'd never done business tax before, did our returns incorrectly, and from then on I wanted to do them myself. And I laugh every time I see this clip, because it is completely accurate:

    https://youtu.be/ILysMhm8lXs
    Hazel_1914
    Mr. Vivian Stanshall was maybe my favorite of British humorists. Why I am thinking of him now, no idea, but he was funny--
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