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Markness

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  • Why is love denied to me?
    Gerald Wilgus
    Gerald Wilgus
    I can pick that G, D7, C on my banjo and add a hammer and slide.
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    @Markness
    The more power you give to thinking this, the more you are willing it to happen. You have to everyday say l will meet a friend today, and maybe it will lead to a deeper commitment.
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    Plus you meet people but they may not want to be serious, only friends, so u need to be prepared for uncertainty in relationships.
    I wish people would stop telling me they don’t want me to have a girlfriend.
    Markness
    Markness
    @Aspychata I try to shut them out of my mind and I want to prove them wrong. I suppose I need to actually love myself and stop being my own bully.
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    @Markness
    This sounds like a great idea. Maybe you can move forward with this new thought of not being a bully to yourself.
    Gerald Wilgus
    Gerald Wilgus
    Trying to refute somebody for personal matters means that you have issues. Are you trying to feel better about yourself. When what you want to accomplish is not self driven, but directed by others, you look weak as you are giving them power.
    My guitar is suffering from neglect. :(
    Raggamuffin
    Raggamuffin
    Perhaps you are projecting your suffering onto an inanimate object.
    tree
    tree
    That's a creative way to say you haven't been playing the guitar lately.
    Takes you right out of the equation, while still hinting at whose
    'fault' it is.
    I was bullied for liking music.
    Raggamuffin
    Raggamuffin
    Liking music others disliked? Bullies find any reason to pick on someone.

    Mind you, I silently judge people on their music tastes. If someone is a huge pop music fan, I have a strong suspicion we won't ever become good friends.
    I think it’s unfair to say I shouldn’t have children just because someone doesn’t like me.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    There people who like you. I like you and feel for you. I sometimes feel the same way.
    330
    330
    You can and adopt a child
    Stuttermabolur
    Stuttermabolur
    @Moogwizard it's not that simple. As things stands he doesn't live independently, and adoption rules are pretty strict (as they should be). My disabled aunt hasn't been allowed to adopt despite wanting to for years.
    I bought Clive Barker’s Imajica for later reading. I still need to finish Weaveworld.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Read what pleases you and don't be told from your holy friend to read his book.
    I wish I could go home and someone who loves me more than anything would be there.
    Gerald Wilgus
    Gerald Wilgus
    What are you doing to realize that goal? But as any married person can tell you, sometimes you get home to your HoneyDo list or other relationship landmines.
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    Sorry @Gerald Wilgus l ccouldn't help but laugh. Can you do the canoe? on yourhoneydo list? I am still waiting. Lol.

    I cook delicious food, and l am old school, very serving to my boyfriend. He loves being spoiled. Haha
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    @tree
    Or cats, or dogs, or birds, or rabbits
    Markness why don't you try a yoga class in your area.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Sorry to hear that. I was just talking to my yoga teacher today. I asked her if it helps with depression and she said yes. It helped her. I find it's helping me with depression more than Church, which makes me depressed.
    Markness
    Markness
    I don’t doubt it could help depression. My case of depression is just extremely difficult to deal with, especially since it’s treatment resistant. I was also being bullied at work and a friend stopped being one to me.
    tree
    tree
    @Markness You acknowledge that you believe yoga could help you.
    What's the next reasonable step?
    A. think about being bullied at work and a lost friendship
    B. check out yoga classes

    Choose one.
    I hate myself.
    Markness
    Markness
    @tree I mentioned being tired from work and she asked where I worked.
    tree
    tree
    That's practice in social interaction, at least. It wdn't be reasonable to
    expect every encounter to be a highway to romance.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Trust me it's not. I have conversations but I think the person's are not interested and wants to leave. Yet when a normal person talks to them they go on for over 10 minutes.
    I am still excluded from social functions at work. :(
    tree
    tree
    @Markness
    What kind of social functions are there at work?
    Do you mean, hanging out on breaks?
    Or what?
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    That's mean they do that to you. I would just show up if it bothers you that much. Do they think you don't want to be invited?
    tree
    tree
    @Markness
    Still wondering what these social functions at work are.
    It’s storming and I am worried about the power getting knocked out again. :(
    Misery
    Misery
    Happens *a lot* around my area. We're in the middle of nowhere, connection is shaky. Have you thought of getting something like a backup battery? "UPS" is the abbreviation for that type. Huge blocky thing.
    Misery
    Misery
    I use one here, even if (when) the power pops the PC (or whatever) can still run for a good couple of hours. Also good for protecting from power surges. Obviously it cant run your whole house, but it at least allows something to run for a while when power is down.
    "The light in me shines the light in you."
    That is what my yoga teachers say after class. I am starting to love myself more thinking that before I can love someone else.
    Markness
    Markness
    That’s a nice thing to say. :)
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Thanks.
    Gerald Wilgus
    Gerald Wilgus
    Exactly! Reflect the good in others is one way to positively be noticed, connect, and be the person people want a relationship with.
    I just found out there is a Disgaea 7 in Japan! I’ve really dropped the ball on some of my interests!
    tree
    tree
    Markness
    Markness
    Gotta wait until Fall of this year to play it.
    Clutch’s Robot Hive/Exodus and Mastodon’s Blood Mountain are the best albums to start with for newcomers to both bands.
    I have a dental appointment at 9:00 but I haven’t slept yet and it’s currently 5:32 now. My GI issues have been acting up again.
    tree
    tree
    If only there were some way to track this.
    Like....keeping a record of what you eat, so that
    someone could review and note any pattern of
    effects.

    Is there anyone who'd be willing to keep a record
    of what you eat? You, for example?
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