So....I believe this is something many Aspie women deal with. Yes, I know, many females in general deal with this. But for Aspies, as I have read, and as I myself have experienced, apparently the vibes or boundaries we do or don't send off can be either misconstrued as availability or make us seem like an easy target.
In my slow to process/recollect way, I am now realizing that this has already begun to happen at work with one older man.
Going forward, I think I need to realize that UNFORTUNATELY, no matter how innocent and clean my end of the conversation may be, there are men who will try to steer it in other directions. Thus far, I have just ignored or laughed it off and kept on with my own topic. But clearly this is not appropriate. I need to reconsider how friendly I am with men (and with coworkers in general, as I said in my last post) - because too many take that as a sign of sexual interest or at the very least, an open target. And really, I deserve to be treated better. It doesn't matter if I can ignore it and avoid any real threats - I deserve to be viewed and treated better, with respect.
So.....yes, again - professionalism, professionalism, professionalism. This is the number one thing I want people at work to think of when they think of me.
In my slow to process/recollect way, I am now realizing that this has already begun to happen at work with one older man.
Going forward, I think I need to realize that UNFORTUNATELY, no matter how innocent and clean my end of the conversation may be, there are men who will try to steer it in other directions. Thus far, I have just ignored or laughed it off and kept on with my own topic. But clearly this is not appropriate. I need to reconsider how friendly I am with men (and with coworkers in general, as I said in my last post) - because too many take that as a sign of sexual interest or at the very least, an open target. And really, I deserve to be treated better. It doesn't matter if I can ignore it and avoid any real threats - I deserve to be viewed and treated better, with respect.
So.....yes, again - professionalism, professionalism, professionalism. This is the number one thing I want people at work to think of when they think of me.