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Youtube Habit

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I think I'm getting over my youtube addiction, strangely enough it's Youtube themselves that have brought about this change.

For many years I lived in a very remote region with limited internet access so I simply wasn't exposed to much media, and even the first couple of years I was back in civilisation I never took much notice of it. It's only in the last couple of years that I've really been looking at youtube videos and it became a bit of an obsession.

Early on I learned to not be logged in when viewing youtube videos simply because the urge to respond to people's comments was too strong and getting involved in arguments with people I will never meet is just another layer of stress I really don't need in my life. Because I'm not logging in and because my browser dumps all cookies every time I close it every time I go to Youtube I'm a brand new unknown user with no history.

This was great for a while but they've been tweaking the settings on their site lately and they took away the ability to sort search results by date. This has made finding things I'm looking for much more difficult and now quite often when I go looking for videos I want to watch I just get bombarded with so much ridiculous click bait crap that I give up without watching anything.

I could always log in of course and then I would have a little bit more control over what I do and don't want to see, but as far as I'm concerned that would be counterproductive, I'm noticing beneficial changes in myself from staying away from youtube. I'm losing my cravings for junk food.

I turned right off junk food when I was living in the bush, my sense of smell and taste altered and I began to really hate the smell of places like McChuck's and Kentucky Fried Kitten. I got used to that again living back in the city but I still never really went to any of the chain places much, preferring the little privately owned corner shops instead - better food and cheaper. Strangely though for the last couple of years I quite often wake up in the mornings wanting junk food and having to talk myself out of it.

Just 2 weeks of far less Youtube and those weird cravings aren't happening any more. I never would have been able to link those two ideas before but it really does seem like the constant bombardment of advertising was having an effect on me. Adverts are something else you don't get when you're living in a remote place. :)
 
The adverts on YouTube are sooooooo bad.

Do people really fall for those enough to make them useful?

If so, humanity will follow the dodo into nothingness.
 
I watch video podcasts mostly. Music equipment reviews. Sometimes, videos on how to "fix it yourself" stuff.
 
Coincidentally I was about to write a small essay relating to this. Anyways, good job on distancing yourself from Youtube. Digital media is so manipulative right now. It's so bad that I've seen someone label the act of reading a book as "healing"

Here's some plugins that make Youtube more manageable
Hide Youtube-Shorts – Get this Extension for 🦊 Firefox (en-US)
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YouTube Anti Translate - Official Port – Get this Extension for 🦊 Firefox (en-US)
 
I've had a similar addiction to Youtube for awhile now.

But similarly to you, it's not some method, but instead Youtube itself that is breaking the addiction over time.

It's the content. I find that there's a few very specific types of content that appear frequently and also drive me crazy:

1. Videos that are really just Tiktok shorts that someone ported to Youtube. Tiktok is generally brainless, so...

2. "OMG this thing just happened, we're all doomed, DOOOOOOOOOOOOMED pleaseclickthissponsor DOOOM"

3. Review of a thing that has already been reviewed by 50000 other channels. Not because the person talking about the thing is actually interested. But because it's a trending thing. Often they have this sort of checked-out look while doing it.

4. Reaction content

5. Angry reaction content

6. Bigotry of any sort

7. Grifters. This one is a whole big topic in and of itself.

8. Slow talky videos with text overlaid on top of Minecraft footage for some reason. Usually generic self help stuff.

9. Top 10 whatever

10. Talky videos with text on Minecraft but this time it's just someone reading Reddit posts

11. aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa


At this point it's so rare that I find anything new that doesnt suck that I tend to latch onto something and watch it over and over for a time.

When I first got onto Youtube, it was primarily for video game content. The "let's play" type specifically. It was usually smaller channels playing things they genuinely enjoyed and wanted to share with everyone, often while just being funny and entertaining, but not overboard. And other similar types of content.

But now? Most of the sort of stuff I had an interest in watching is gone. I mean, the old stuff from years ago is technically still there, sure, but nobody wants to make any of that sort of thing now. And I know it isnt just gaming. If it's the sort of thing that would have been popular in the early days of the site, chances are the algorithm shoved it off a cliff awhile ago in favor of more braindead things.

What really gets me though about modern Youtube content is that there's just... no substance. Very little effort put in, just rapid-fire content to drown the audience. And no, I dont mean AI. People keep blaming that, but this has been going on longer than that, and the worst channels dont use AI at all.

It's so rare now that I find a creator that makes anything with any sort of passion or enthusiasm. Instead, just glassy-eyed people blandly doing whatever is trending, nothing more.

Just... bah. I'm tired of it all.

The frustrating thing is that without Youtube, there's just nothing else to watch. Heck, I used to watch anime, but now... good grief if I see just one more "guy gets stepped on by a dinosaur and reincarnates as a cheesecake in an alternate fantasy world" sort of series, I'm gonna stab a clown. Or the other type of series, the "powerscaling" type, just... uuuuuuuuuuugh. Gonna stab TWO clowns. With ONE pike.


The adverts on YouTube are sooooooo bad.

Do people really fall for those enough to make them useful?

If so, humanity will follow the dodo into nothingness.

I dont understand how people can use Youtube, or the internet as a whole, without a proper adblocker. And for Youtube, Sponsorblock as well.

Like seriously, on my setup here I havent seen a Youtube ad in a few years now.

But if I try to watch anything at all on a device that isnt mine, it's impossible. A 15 minute video with 12 ads? Yeah, no. Not doing that.

Same with the rest of the internet.
 

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