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Your most romantic dream of having a wife or husband?

Pink Jazz

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I was wondering, what was your most romantic dream of having a wife or husband?

I once had a dream that I was a fairy in a pink dress shirt and pink slacks and had a beautiful fairy wife. We were dancing around in the sky to some smooth jazz music, which I think might have actually been the music that I sleep with (SiriusXM Watercolors).

I would like to know your experiences.
 
I once had a dream that I was married to Olympia Valance, used to play Paige in Neighbours, she was hot, gorgeous, oh yeah my kind of girl. and she has an equally hot sister called Holly, who also used to be in Neighbours.

I also have very *ahem* adult, dreams about Marge Simpson lol, well I do like her.
 
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Had a dream where i had an overwhelming sense of love for this woman. We went camping with family and had a few sites spaced out. Went to do something prep food or whatever, she went to walk about with my cousins and sisters came back and she got attacked by a bear while i was at the other site. Rushed over, got her to the hospital and as she was dying in the hospital bed bawled my eyes out. Woke up crying and pissed at my mom for waking me up "No, i have to go back! She needs me!"
I was a kid at the time, ya. Truly believed that was my true love and that one day i may find her. It was definitely a lucid dream but due to memory decay unsure if that one was an OBE or not.

This it what stands out in memory, can't recall a specific wife husband scenario that had an impact anywhere close to the one mentioned above.
 
I don’t have romantic dreams or dreams about getting married. I do occasionally give birth to cats, in my dreams.
 
Not dream exactly, but once while I was with my ex and we did some recreational drugs I had a thought. It was as if the universe was just me and him in all our forms and every single particle in my body was a lifetime of its own constantly chasing him to unite and become complete. So love was the answer and everything in life. It was so beautiful.

As far as sexual dreams I do tend to have many. But my sexual dreams are too vivid and never involve a person I respect as a human being such as a partner or a friend.
 
I have dreamed about my husband regularly ever since I first met him, before we dated or even thought of dating him. But I can't say it was or is about being married. The first dream he vomited in a sink. Lovely and romantic, huh?
 
I had a dream once, it was everything I ever wanted.

It was a crazy vivid dream. I never saw her face and I didn't recognize her, but we were laying in bed, silent and fully clothed. I held her in my arms, and I did nothing and thought of nothing but to bask in the pervading sense of peace and comfort as she leaned into me, her every breathe and every beat of her heart confirming that I was there and so was she.

The warmth of her body pressed against mine; the smell of her hair - like lilacs in bloom; the softness of her skin and the stillness and quiet in which we found ourselves made the experience almost too surreal for words.

For the time it lasted, this unknown woman was my whole world, to the exclusion of all the world's worries and woes. For the time it lasted, I got to feel an intensely blissful feeling that I can only conclude was what the poets call "love".

I have never been more pissed off at my alarm clock.
 
I once had kind of a dream about my ex from school, well we were married, with 2 kids and living in a nice house in Norton, Sheffield (I hate that area, too many painful memories of school), but I'd made her cut all contact with her annoying Brother but she didn't thank me for that, but we stayed together for the sake of the kids.
 
I had a dream once, it was everything I ever wanted.

It was a crazy vivid dream. I never saw her face and I didn't recognize her, but we were laying in bed, silent and fully clothed. I held her in my arms, and I did nothing and thought of nothing but to bask in the pervading sense of peace and comfort as she leaned into me, her every breathe and every beat of her heart confirming that I was there and so was she.

The warmth of her body pressed against mine; the smell of her hair - like lilacs in bloom; the softness of her skin and the stillness and quiet in which we found ourselves made the experience almost too surreal for words.

For the time it lasted, this unknown woman was my whole world, to the exclusion of all the world's worries and woes. For the time it lasted, I got to feel an intensely blissful feeling that I can only conclude was what the poets call "love".

I have never been more pissed off at my alarm clock.

Would make a good meditation.
 
I had a dream I married a Vietnamese woman. We were walking around in a park that was far away, maybe in another country. I looked at her and she smiled at me.
 
I had a dream of marrying someone from NYC when I was in my teens. In the dream I loved his looks, loved him, and we even went on to draw plans for a house and all the details of the wedding.

I don't think this was just my subconsious mind conjuring up the ideal man and romance, because I continued to have dreams of this guy and we would be together at different places and especially around New York.
He told me a few things about himself in these dreams
and much later in life I got to know someone with whom
I talked about these dreams with that was from NYC.
He really believed he knew the person as the descriptions
fit someone he had worked with.
We tried to track down the man, but, never found where he was currently.
I called it Love on the Astral Plane.
Since I found out he was real and the things he told me about, and places we were together turned out to be real.
 
I had a dream of marrying someone from NYC when I was in my teens. In the dream I loved his looks, loved him, and we even went on to draw plans for a house and all the details of the wedding.

I don't think this was just my subconsious mind conjuring up the ideal man and romance, because I continued to have dreams of this guy and we would be together at different places and especially around New York.
He told me a few things about himself in these dreams
and much later in life I got to know someone with whom
I talked about these dreams with that was from NYC.
He really believed he knew the person as the descriptions
fit someone he had worked with.
We tried to track down the man, but, never found where he was currently.
I called it Love on the Astral Plane.
Since I found out he was real and the things he told me about, and places we were together turned out to be real.
Someone I know had a dream I had three kids and a partner, and he broke out of prison to see me. I hadn't seen him for almost 10 years, and when we got back in touch he told me about it, and I did indeed have three children and a partner, and he had just got out of prison.
When I was 15 I dreamt I found a foetus in an underpass wrapped in a blanket. I took it home and tried to take care of it but it died. Two years later I had an ectopic pregnancy.
 
All 'romantic' dreams I had as a kid ended up in death or betrayal. It must be nice to have a silly fairy marriage dream like that.
 
Rarely have nice dreams,I usually have nightmares about stuff that has happened to me in the past,though I did have a nice dream years ago and even did a drawing based on it.
 
I would like to share all of these dreams but...uh, not sure that would be appropriate.

Had a few though that were pretty sensible, but these sorts of dreams are few and far in between.
 
Of course, if I ever do get married, it would be nice for me to wear pink since it is my favorite color. Not necessarily pink from head to toe as in my fairy dream, but a nice pink shirt would be great.
 

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