Anyone notice that women always go for the 'bad guys' and 'arrogant jerks'?
Its because women are attracted to confident males and the 'bad boys' usually have confidence which is why they are successful with women. Women place a lot of importance on confidence and they only seem to notice men who have confidence it doesn't necessarily matter if the man is a good person or not so long as he is confident (which is why you see so many violent and thuggish men in relationships. Well I do anyway) . However if your a socially awkward, polite and quiet male like myself who lacks confidence you just don't exist to women. I think its wrong that women place so much importance on confidence because there can be more to people than just confidence. I think women are being unfair ignoring quiet guys like me who lack confidence and only going for the confident and socially accepted males. I think its quite shallow.
A female retort to this would probably be 'but guys don't notice the quiet women' well in my opinion this just isn't true because women having confidence isn't necessarily important to males but even quieter women will have more opportunity than quiet males to have a relationship because males are always competing for women even the quieter and less good looking ones. But as men are expected to make the first move (for some reason?) the quiet guys like myself get ignored and left behind. I just don't think this is fair. I'm 28 years old and I've never had a girlfriend or been in a relationship and throughout all my life I've noticed that women from the good looking confident ones to the ordinary and shy ones all prefer confident, outgoing and socially accepted men. None of them have ever shown any interest in a quiet guy like me. Women will probably say I should get more confidence but I don't agree with this maybe if the women noticed quiet guys like me in the first place instead of only noticing the 'bad boys' and 'confident players' then quiet guys like me would gain some confidence.
My own personal theory on why women like the confidence 'bad boys' have is because women are genetically hardwired to be attracted to alpha males and lets be honest alpha males are always aggressively confident and competitive idiots. Women seem to ignore and not to notice nice quiet guys like me who lack confidence. The fact of the matter is that women are attracted to confidence in men more than anything else and it doesn't necessarily matter if the man is a good person or not so long as he is a confident alpha male.
Which is why women like 'bad boys' and 'confident and competitive' men because they are alpha males.
This proves that all human relationships between men and women are based on natural selection, self preservation and mutual self interest and anything else is just human egotism.
Well I'm glad I'm a quiet and polite omega male with no confidence and am looking forward to disappearing from the gene pool.
Its because women are attracted to confident males and the 'bad boys' usually have confidence which is why they are successful with women. Women place a lot of importance on confidence and they only seem to notice men who have confidence it doesn't necessarily matter if the man is a good person or not so long as he is confident (which is why you see so many violent and thuggish men in relationships. Well I do anyway) . However if your a socially awkward, polite and quiet male like myself who lacks confidence you just don't exist to women. I think its wrong that women place so much importance on confidence because there can be more to people than just confidence. I think women are being unfair ignoring quiet guys like me who lack confidence and only going for the confident and socially accepted males. I think its quite shallow.
A female retort to this would probably be 'but guys don't notice the quiet women' well in my opinion this just isn't true because women having confidence isn't necessarily important to males but even quieter women will have more opportunity than quiet males to have a relationship because males are always competing for women even the quieter and less good looking ones. But as men are expected to make the first move (for some reason?) the quiet guys like myself get ignored and left behind. I just don't think this is fair. I'm 28 years old and I've never had a girlfriend or been in a relationship and throughout all my life I've noticed that women from the good looking confident ones to the ordinary and shy ones all prefer confident, outgoing and socially accepted men. None of them have ever shown any interest in a quiet guy like me. Women will probably say I should get more confidence but I don't agree with this maybe if the women noticed quiet guys like me in the first place instead of only noticing the 'bad boys' and 'confident players' then quiet guys like me would gain some confidence.
My own personal theory on why women like the confidence 'bad boys' have is because women are genetically hardwired to be attracted to alpha males and lets be honest alpha males are always aggressively confident and competitive idiots. Women seem to ignore and not to notice nice quiet guys like me who lack confidence. The fact of the matter is that women are attracted to confidence in men more than anything else and it doesn't necessarily matter if the man is a good person or not so long as he is a confident alpha male.
Which is why women like 'bad boys' and 'confident and competitive' men because they are alpha males.
This proves that all human relationships between men and women are based on natural selection, self preservation and mutual self interest and anything else is just human egotism.
Well I'm glad I'm a quiet and polite omega male with no confidence and am looking forward to disappearing from the gene pool.
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